I have friends with young children and some family members too. We talk about them, we watch them and we make pics of them and remember our own time and take all the old pics out of the box and laugh but we also have something in common. As all who are with children, who love them, we worry. But today it is something different as it used to be.
See, there was a time when we looked at children when they played and that was all we saw. Nowadays this has changed. We look sharp what is appropriate and what is not. And it is not because we think so, it is because the world has become crazy. We think about what others see or might see.
It is not only how we dress our children, it is also what is a child allowed to do in playing. Yes, we don't let them play as children do, because we interpret the play in an adult way despite the fact that a child is not thinking the way we do.
You don't understand? Well, take a child, a young boy who wants to play a baby and therefor goes to his mothers breast and plays as he is drinking milk. Once this is all we saw a boy playing a baby but now many see a women abusing a boy or a boy being sexual with his mom. Sick? Yes, it is, as it is so far from the truth but then, we became those crazy people!
Many times I like to see the pictures taken from the children but always I have those scissor in my mind. I know it is just a normal thing I see but then a pic on Facebook can be obviously more. Others pretend to see something sexual. But it is just a son sitting on the knees of his father and play. I write my friends if I see such problematical pics and with this I try to help them to avoid bad problems as I know they are good people. Thought I don't feel good for needing to do this.
I remember it all started long ago. Years ago I was wondering how in the USA it was forbidden or not good to have his children playing outside naked or make a picture of them under the shower eating a sausage. It was all sexual content for them and you could be arrested for being a pedophile.
Now it has landed at our homes here in ol' Europe and that scars me! Those pics were once quite typical for my generation and non had a problem with that.
And no, I won't make it a smaller problem that there are in fact pedophiles outside. And sadly most of them believe they can deal with this alone when in fact they need help and therapy to avoid making what they should not. But it is a tabu and it is always a hunting when people believe you could be- so it happens again and again that children getting abused and hurt.
How less adult sometimes think it is a problem is seen when you have a lawsuit. People react no logical and this is a problem and the devil takes it for his own to make things worse.
How I mean that? See the conservatives and the church all hunt a pedophile but never really cared about the children. They seed fear to get power and tell people this will help and so we've lost our instinct what is o.k. and what is not.
Finding a child cute is not a sexual thing but we have learned that it is or can called like that. Even worse, the conservative and many man in the church are those who abuse and abuse and get away with it to much to often. The net of lies is above us and we must cut it down!
But also all those porno chic in spots and on TV, News and Newspapers and magazines must stop. We even show very young girls as little women just because of money and make them a sexual object. Already little boys and girls learn how to harass each other.
Why can't we let children be children again? Let them play and look like they do when they play. If the trouser is going down let the child correct it self not run to it scream and shout and put it on in order because you interpret this as sexual.
Children do not have sexual thoughts as crown ups! But yes in some countries children get prison sentence because adults have told them so.
I worry about our children and their own look on their own body. The porn chic made it already more miserable then needed. Now they live in a forbidden fruit. They have something bad, they can't get away from and how can a man deal with that? I worry what they would think if they have children and look at our pics and wonder why we could be so free in our own childhood but forbid them to be likewise.
I worry our inner scissor will become bigger and make things worse.
It's an unhealthy movement. What's next?
Tell me... !
Love & Light
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