No child of mine

The other day I posted on Facebook a picture of me older then 15 years. It was part of the "Fotochallenge" where you have to post for five days each day one picture of yourself from a time 15 years and longer ago. Quite funny as most of us have to actually look out for the real photos and make a pic of them to get them on the computer or laptop. Yes, there was a time we only could make the pictures that way and we have been more careful in the way when we made one. It was to expensive to waste a photo. 

Anyway it made me think again of how a family is made and how much we discuss this these days and that some people still only call the so called traditional family a family- meaning : mother, father and a child or two. They say only this version leads to a lucky and happy life and only this way makes you a good human. 

Of course this is such bullshit as you always had different family constellations and those have been all good and children are able to enjoy life. 

I mean what is important for a child? Having two parents like mother and father as such or ... having a loving parent and someone you can trust and look up to. Someone who teach you important things in life and will listen when in need. 

Is it bad for children to have a father and a mother who are working mornings and evening and nights and have not much time left? Is it bad when a girl grows up at her fathers house with only him to look up to and he works full time? Is it bad when both parents travel along and take the kid with them and each time it has to get used to a new school? Is it bad when a grandmother or aunt takes care of you instead of a mother and a father? Is it bad when you grow up in a children's home?

No, all children can have a happy time, may it be hard sometimes and may they see the person who takes care of them not that much, but as long those people give love and really care and listen and teach and see you as a precious, you will become a good human of course. 

Thieves and murderer have come out of functional families and so called traditional families. 

They are in no way a guarantee that a child will be happy, a good human, someone we will look up to. 

And no child cares itself about who the person is, if the person is gay, women, man, old or young. All they want is to be able to trust you, to find home at your side and someone to ask and please for help, someone who will show and teach them.

Bad things happen in every family, no matter how the family is made. Yes, that means that no version is the best. No version is the only one and right one and as many call the traditional family of mother and father and two children- they forget that the first family they say they look up to and is the role model (Maria and Jesu...) they live after- actually has two dads and a mother who got a child in no typical naturally way (no sex) and had only one child. The model those people claim is actually very young and the most time of mankind we had all kinds of families. 

So... to all with different families- let's stay happy and never let anyone tell you, you are worth less, worthless or not real. 

LOVE & LIGTH

What not to forget about easter!

Easter has gone and most have had fun. 
But what is easter about- we can read it in our newspapers. But what do they forget about?
It's not the bunny, not where the egg comes from. It's not the lamp and eating it or not. It's not the question if you are going to church or not, nor is it the question about Jesus and how he went out of his grave. It is not even the question, is the cross a sign for pain or proud and how do we see it in our life. It is not the question when the church took away that cruel way of treating a human (it was 300 years after Jesus had the "luck" to hang there).

It is no question that easter is the most important celebration day for christ as it is about the true sign of being Jesus someone special, thought the Bible gives you three different stories, who Jesus is and that's why people once in Rome decided to mad up the holy trinity to put all stories in one. 
Science has shown that the human we call today Jesus must have lived once and sure was some kind of healer and did wander around. So part of the whole story is true or like we say it in Hollywood- after a true story. 
So this is also not about the fact that the Bible can only be read as a miracle book and not taken word by word. 
So what is missing in all we read? 
The women! Yes, the women who have been with Jesus. It was the women who saw him first, his spirit and who went to his grave and saw him not being in there. It was the women who stood by him when he was on the cross while all the man have run away. And there is one special women who is actually also the only one person who has been with him all his live. Maria Magdalena! There both spoke the same language, as they both came from the same place. And she was after all we know about the women around him the only one being able to stand on her own feet. She must have come from a richer house as otherwise it would not be that easy as a women to decide by herself. 
What we can find about her is a strong person and the only follower of a life time. A women who made career and then have been dumped down by the church and the rest of the women as in Jesus days women had more rights and stood on same level with man. The change came in Rome when man decided to put together all the stories in one book called "The Bible" and also to decide which parts come in and which stay out. It was this time man understood that their power will only be bigger when they change the image of women. Since that time women became a week part and even Maria and the other women have been written out of the truth and so a man was the one who discovered the spirit of Jesus. 
But without that strong women there would be no church! So why are women not fighting back and say what is right, that they have the same rights! Why let women still make them self believe there are the week link? Cos they're not, not even physically. 
You know I worked in psychiatry and there we had small women being in big rage and we needed over ten man to calm her down to get her in control. 
So a small person can beat a big man if she just believes in that or is in rage. 

So let's start celebrating easter and the women who made it possible and let this be a reminder that the institution of church is a product made of lies. 
Remember that it is time to give women the same rights! They are not week. They are capable of the same. 
Believe in God and Jesus if you want but don't trust the Institution- no religions institution. 

Love & Light