Facebook

Are you on Facebook? Maybe daily? Are you only there to play and chatt from time to time?
Or are you actually active doing some blogging? 
Is it gossip or is it how you feel? Or are you also into political discussion?
If you had some discussion you maybe had the experience that it sometimes seems to go wrong.
How come? 
People seem to react not only spontanious, they seem to react short, sometimes rough and sometimes silly. Do they take to less time for the thought to write down?
Sometimes it's fun reading the answeres, but often you feel an missunderstanding beetween the writers and those who did put up a blog, a meaning, a sentence.
Not only the spelling is wrong in many answeres, even the way they seem to talk to you. 
I mean sometimes respect is missing but sometimes it is like each don't get what the other person wants to tell. So people get angry, instead of taking time to breath and think about what they just read and what they wrote. Sometimes it only takes a minute to explain in other words. Why is it so hard? 
Then we have those who like to commend on others and they do it with sexual meaning, being bit rough and funny or telling their own thoughts, but if someone does this - the same to themself, they freak out, get angry, block, defriend and have hard to take critics from others.
Can't we act different.. I think we can and should.
An example: I by myself did blogged two or three times a thing, another reader and follower answered to. They wrote that I was wrong or some of the facts I wrote are wrong. So I looked after and controlled and saw they were right. I correct the post or in an another time, I canceled the whole thing, because it was too wrong. Then another time I explained my opinion and let the others stand by as it is a free world to believe what you want. ( As long no one gets harm, beaten or killed for an opinion..)
I also don't go into disscussion about to earnest things, not because I would not stand them, it's because Facebook is the wrong place for it. 
Why? Having an opinion in the WWW is an anonymous thing and so we suggest it is easy and we never get touched by the meaning of others but as it is Facebook is a side where everyone can read your opinion and as we used to like to stand in a shining light, we don't like critics and react more sensitive then we should and would if we talked at a table. Yes, actually many take the opinions of others very personal which is to be true stupid but the way it mostly is. Sadly most of them never realised this fact.
Well I did defriend too, but it was when we had nothing to talk about, when there was to much of the "me" "me" "me" thing or when their opinion was so strong against mine and even trying to discuss with them was unable because they never listened. 
I believe we have to be stronger then just to unlike someone, cancel the friendship or block them, just because they have a different opinion or write in the same way we do. I think you have to stand, what you do by yourself. Sadly many just talk but never do the walk. But most sadly it is, when I read afterwards a line which is not really true to the facts what had happen. To many then play the big victim role and folks this is nearly never the case. So when I see this happening at friends I think sad about them and wonder- how to talk to them about this? 
I like them, love them and have realised that Facebook shows our true self more then we are mostly aware of. That's why I don't post everything. I think mostly first before I send out a message. 
Censuring myself or is it protection? I call it protection and a very pragmatic way of dealing with the Internet.
 
But the question remains. Why are so many acting this way? Have we forgotten how to talk to each other? Has the Internet changed us to less empathic people? Or have many never learned this? Shouldn't they teach these things at school?
Better start at home I say. Start reflecting yourself and the way you react. Watch yourself talking and if you have many time the feeling of things on Facebook are going wrong then look deeper inside you, because it's you who attract those reactions. 
Are you suggesting people are mean, bad and never want you do good? Are you thinking no one loves you truly and you are the sadest person in the universe? Are you expecting to fast the baddest in an answere from another man, because this seems to be often the case when I read on Facebook. And on the other side are you trying much to get candy and "likes" from others? Are you trying to get compliments often?
Well then here we are- those are negative vibrations and so does it come, that we hear the talk of the law of attraction---> your wish is my command. 
 
So before you defriend and block, read again, breath, actually -LISTEN- think the best of the other person and then react. Sometimes you just said it all wrong, but meant it a different way. Sometimes you just post something without your own commend but be aware- people take this as your opinion, as everything you post is on Facebook an opinion! 
If there is someone who tells you that your post kills itself because of wrong facts, then understand this: it's not to harm you, it's not to make you personal ill, it's not the meaning your opinion is wrong, it is just the saying that you did post something which contains some failure in it. 
Then the best way to react would be to say... thanks I look it up.. oh your right- but I just want to show with this and that.. maybe I should have better wrote this first, but thanks anyway.. or you deside it's better to take the post away... 
Because stand for what you post!  No matter what- people will take you for this! 
Not because they want you bad. It is just they assume you mean it that way, because you posted it.
And if you do not want a discussion´- so tell it, cut it off.... no one will treat you for that. No one can, even though some will try, but is this your Problem? No!
 
So here starts the world peace. In our mind and acting...
 
As always..
 
LOVE & LIGHT