Is a question many of us ask and in this case I don't mean just the hate against gays, also lesbians, transgender and so on.
Queer people face hate again and again in so many parts of the world and on so many levels.
Why is that?
This is just to collect some of them and if you know more or have your own opinion so write me or comment! Or write under @SebastianisLove on Twitter.
O.k. Let's see where this hate comes from.
Mostly it is sure it is learned. Since childhood or when someone got a bad experience in life and don't want to take the fact of his own fault.
Religious is sure the biggest reason, thought many just heard from some extreme thinking human that hate was the answer but truly have never read the books. Hate is not such a part, but interpretations makes it happen. To deny the truth to become a hateful people is the common way. The truth of Love and listen to your heart.
But could it be also the denying that heterosexual don't want to talk about their own ways of thinking and acting about love and relationships? We have dating portals. We have naked date shows on TV. We have people marry each other with the first meeting just for a TV show. We have the man with his 5 women and he is celebrating polygamy and calls himself a true christ- how can he? We match people with question and other methods on TV shows. We have the bachelor where women fight for one rich man- giving up all their credibility. We have more divorces then ever and still man and women beating them self up in their marriage, some many years and in such bloody ways that you just wonder. And we have all those married people without children- but some of them deny children for others. Oh yes then - We have all those big, dirty Sex scandals and the politic but foremost the church is most part of it. In some areas we do not respect the women and kill them because they have been raped and are fighting back- how can they tell to be true believer or act in the name of a god?!
So a lot of reason to look away and instead take the gays and hate them, thought it is lying to them self.
How can you hate someone who loves?
Is it the fact that open gays don't play the holy game? That gays seem to take what they want and like. That they are more true to what they need. That they mostly live in open relationship because they take the truth of human sexuality for real.
Can it be that Sex and forbidding it makes people more aware of the fact that they are humans?! Yes, animals a like we do have the needs and then above that we can enjoy it.
Forbidding because religious says so, makes people just building their own prison cell. How can you not then hate all who is walking free outside that cell?!
Exactly.
So one way to lose hate is to open your heart and mind and then your soul to sexuality. That does not mean you have to fuck around like a dervish, but can enjoy it without fear, because without it you would never fear another humans sexuality. Be comfort with yourself and tell your religious preacher to shut up telling you to stay uncomfy and unhappy just to be a fellow sheep.
Well, folks tell me your thoughts...!
Love & Light
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