Human Nature

It's a human nature to be homosexual. Yes, it is. Proven so many times but then again, so many people still believe what they heard, that it is not. The claim comes from the interpretation of the Bible, the Koran or somewhere else. From a book who claims to tell the only truth, though no book is written from the only one- god itself. So it is a claim and no one has proven it right till today it is therefore a miracle, a history, a story some people take for telling others what to think and feel and ignoring the fact that you are born this way. But how to talk to people who don't want to listen or see another view or are ready to change their own or even question their opinion? I cannot make them change if they don't want it but what I can do is always and always talk about it, taking the facts, taking the reality, showing it, and asking them, asking again and again and again until they start moving and then I can try to give them things on their way so they can work it out for themself, because it is the only way to understand and change can be made.

So it is May and the http://dayagainsthomophobia.org/ IDAHOT Day is coming. To show and remember others we are still here, we are still human, we are still worth the same and we want it and we call for it- the same rights, the same love, the same possibilities. 

This day is an international protest day since 1990 when homosexuality has been taken away from the list of diseases.  

In Berlin I will try to help a group of people to tell about t.ex. Homophobia. 

A word wish is invented from New York Psychiatrist/-therapist Dr. Georg Weinberg and it makes that you call those ill who claims that homosexual are ill. 

A phobia by the way is an irrational fear of something but here it is not so much the fear as we can say today after all those years of fighting, talking and showing, outing and pouring. It's a combination of lies, wrong talking and of course it is mostly to see therefore with those who are unknown, religious and ignoring. The education is important when it is about being against homosexual, because if you don't know it is easier to believe a false claim. It is easier to fall for lies. And when you did not meet someone who is gay or lesbian or bi or trans you never saw a people and all you know is maybe from TV which shows just a small peace of the fact that all those people are like you. Normal too, crazy, lazy and also can be rich and colorful, but they even can be so much... as like you and me. 

The religious people are not all against gays and those "crazy" people. But some are blind because of religious. They take the brain out of mind and let only words of madness rule. Well, it is mostly more simple. They decide not to think and pick a line from a book even known if they take this one, they should know the whole sentence and even known they should take also the rest seriously but that is exactly the point. They try to avoid that reality. Sadly they try to get blinder. If such is possible and it sadly is. Forgetting love and all that stuff and putting hate instead and intolerance, but praying to respect each other... it is a paradox which makes it so dangerous. 

But here we have also the same things like with the unknown as many of them have low education or never meet anyone of that other group. Because confrontation in every day life use to change more to the positive and use to take out the hate and put in the understanding. Sure not always from day one but it is a process going on. Then they understand that we don't fight for a special privilege. We just want the same rights and taken seriously as human as we all are.

Here we come to ignorance. The devil lies in it. Homosexuality/Bisexuality and Transsexuality always show people their own face, because you have to ask yourself about that. What are you? Who are you? Am I week if I am those? No- you are not. But many believe that. So ignorance is the choice they make. Dangerous is this as it will lead to lying to themself and so they can become more easy victim of false play. 

That means we are putting role models in your lives so that everyone sees, we are the same and each is an own personality like all the rest of us. Because it is still much to say and show and many, many people to reach. 70 countries forbid homosexuality, even known it is natural, a human thing, that we are born this way and in 7 countries in this world we come to life and will be sentence to dead just because we are born this way, even known we harm no one because of being what we are in our sexuality. 

Isn't crazy that such a small thing leads to so much hate and what could we be if the world focus of real important things then what is happening in our beds?!

It is time to end the time of fear!

Let the sun shine in your hearts! 

Let love finally rule the world as we have it in all our songs!

Let there be a love revolution! 

Under the #IDAHOT2015 you'll find where we are the 17 of May or a day before. Ask us. Help us. Be with us. Read and learn. Tell and talk. I don't want more dead people on my bed.

In Berlin you'll will find us at the Brandenburger Tor, look for https://www.facebook.com/enough2014

LOVE & LIGHT

Why such a hate against Gays?

Is a question many of us ask and in this case I don't mean just the hate against gays, also lesbians, transgender and so on.

Queer people face hate again and again in so many parts of the world and on so many levels.

Why is that?

This is just to collect some of them and if you know more or have your own opinion so write me or comment! Or write under @SebastianisLove on Twitter.

O.k. Let's see where this hate comes from.

Mostly it is sure it is learned. Since childhood or when someone got a bad experience in life and don't want to take the fact of his own fault. 

Religious is sure the biggest reason, thought many just heard from some extreme thinking human that hate was the answer but truly have never read the books. Hate is not such a part, but interpretations makes it happen. To deny the truth to become a hateful people is the common way. The truth of Love and listen to your heart. 

But could it be also the denying that heterosexual don't want to talk about their own ways of thinking and acting about love and relationships? We have dating portals. We have naked date shows on TV. We have people marry each other with the first meeting just for a TV show. We have the man with his 5 women and he is celebrating polygamy and calls himself a true christ- how can he? We match people with question and other methods on TV shows. We have the bachelor where women fight for one rich man- giving up all their credibility. We have more divorces then ever and still man and women beating them self up in their marriage, some many years and in such bloody ways that you just wonder. And we have all those married people without children- but some of them deny children for others. Oh yes then - We have all those big, dirty Sex scandals and the politic but foremost the church is most part of it. In some areas we do not respect the women and kill them because they have been raped and are fighting back- how can they tell to be true believer or act in the name of a god?!

So a lot of reason to look away and instead take the gays and hate them, thought it is lying to them self. 

How can you hate someone who loves? 

Is it the fact that open gays don't play the holy game? That gays seem to take what they want and like. That they are more true to what they need. That they mostly live in open relationship because they take the truth of human sexuality for real. 

Can it be that Sex and forbidding it makes people more aware of the fact that they are humans?! Yes, animals a like we do have the needs and then above that we can enjoy it. 

Forbidding because religious says so, makes people just building their own prison cell. How can you not then hate all who is walking free outside that cell?! 

Exactly.

So one way to lose hate is to open your heart and mind and then your soul to sexuality. That does not mean you have to fuck around like a dervish, but can enjoy it without fear, because without it you would never fear another humans sexuality. Be comfort with yourself and tell your religious preacher to shut up telling you to stay uncomfy and unhappy just to be a fellow sheep. 

Well, folks tell me your thoughts...!

Love & Light

It's the end of the year and so... (part1)

Hej, 

what a year and I am still thinking how to put it all in a blog but after all thinking through I only can say... well, I put it in several pieces.

Starting with this one. 

Conchita Wurst who won the Eurovision was a peak this year in many ways. Not only a man as a women with a beard, but also as a talented singer with a song written in the stars. That women figure Conchita represent much more then just a drag queen singing a song. The song was -Rise like a Phonix- and it is a story we all should remember from time to time, that we can rise from ashes and dark times and that we can change ourself into what we are and want to be. A song about the power of respecting yourself sang by an artist who shows respect and love to his figure, to his fans and all the other people and most of all to himself. A man who knows his path and has understood a very important lesson. The lesson to make each game your own, if you want to be a free man.

Make your own game, go your own path and yes it is o.k. to meet others, to learn from others, to go with them together but at the end, you do all your decisions by your own. 

Actually we do every decisions by our own but are often unaware of them. So this is what this song also tells us to do your steps with an open mind and soul and being aware of yourself. 

This is surly what many voters felt and the fact that you can really be what you want as long as you take it seriously and honest. Above the fact that the show was like Hollywood and more then a simple act but simple the singer was in his way of representing his work. This is power in pure form. This was beauty in pure form. 

But the victory of Conchita was also a sign, that many people had their own mind as it shows in the results that the jury was much more conservative and backwards then people were. 

This surely was hope for many as we know very well that in many countries people like Conchita have no rights or less then everybody else, thought it never should be that way as we are all humans and deserve the same rights. 

To make Conchita iconic it needs more then just a great personality. It needs people who believe also in the future of such work and statement. And here luck was on the side of Conchita Wurst as she was loved from big names. Designers love her, other artist love her and even far away artist gave a lovely comment on her acting and singing. 

Not that big names are all, but they help to keep a positive energy around the artist Conchita and so she can go on working and telling what she has to tell.

The man behind Conchita knows very well what he is doing with giving a statement as Conchita and he also knows about the chance of this and the power he can achieve. 

But beauty and so becoming an icon needs also to have the luck to be on pictures who are timeless, like the ones from Julian Laidig. https://www.facebook.com/campact?fref=ts#!/julianlaidig.photography

He was and is one of those who made Conchita look strong, exquisite and beauty and helped in that way to send out the message Conchita wants to send out.

Iconic picture from a photo artist is what many dream of and as it is, he is also one of the people standing behind the project: enough-is-enough/ https://www.facebook.com/enough2014?fref=nf

A project which tries to lift the question of human rights for gays, lesbians, transgender and so on.

Those people try to be a voice in the name of equality and freedom.

They stand up and make it impossible to be ignored by haters and so many other people followed their call to come together, went on the streets and demonstrated or to getter around a flame of hope and ready to talk to people passing by on the streets about the situation of gays, lesbians, transexual, and many more. Asking questions like- When did you decide to be heterosexual- for no one does decide to be lesbian, gay or or or ... and sure no one would if this means a life of fighting and badder life situation. 

Those people like Julian took their time and went on for the right to love each other no matter what and so they had sleepless hours and worked so hard that other could feel, here we have someone who takes the situation for real. For as far to many are still talking but not acting. You know the saying- do the walk, undo the talk- or so it was...

Making our voices seen and our life worth living is what those people do with keeping up the good work. Though we have to learn more, much more like instead of fighting against, we should fight for something we want to put the focus of people of what we want because otherwise they see what we never needed and remember just this and the situation will stay the same. We also have to learn that standing up for the same right does never mean we have to love us with every single atom, but respect us and see us. Yes seeing each other as humans is a lesson we all have to remember and learn again, as we forgot. Seeing means to take us as we are with all our damage, with all our love, with all our mistakes, with all our different positions in life and that we are all worth the same. No one can say to know it all and therfore better as no one does. But many still act that way. Many still fight each other because of jelousy. Sadly only the haters win such games.

But also this year was a year were we got a big backlash in the rights for the LGBTI community but then also many success as the USA is nearly clear to open marriage in all states for each and everyone and of course some other countries did the same, thought some where kind of unexpected and the world still turns and the human kind still survives and the sun still shines and the life still goes on. 

The stupid believe of the gays fault is just this- a wrong believe as those GAYS are just humans.

So lucky that also more stars in sport, media and politic made it out and stand their ground.

But also we saw how many gays like to be blind and fight themself, hate themself and being facist with living gayness in shadow. Living a lie and that is such a sad thing that I only can pitty them, as they take away their own luck.
Because remember in the end of your life all that matters is: All you need is love!

LOVE & LIGHT

Make the yletide gay oder auch- Überraschung zum Fest- a movie

X-mass time is coming up and again we long for our films we know. But what about a new one, a funny and lovely movie about two young people, falling in love and trying to grow as the families have their own idea of the realationship of them. A story about coming home for x-mass and trying to be yourself as we all know when we are away from home, we do change but parents don't or can't see it.
This movie is charming, has speed and a very funny and good storytelling. Some drama of course and some surprises. Some words spoken you never heard before and parents who are normal, but normal. A cameo from an "Enterprise" actress will enjoy you but all above this, you will watch new members of your family as those people are just brilliant and crazy and hilarious in the same time. It shows, as it plays in the USA, typical decoration and x-mass feelings from that country and will make you sure drop a tear of joy now and then. This film is kind of a secret tip, though this film should be seen of much more people no matter where you are from and how your family looks a like. Because as I said, those characters will go straight to your heart.

Refreshing and sentimental, lovely and shiny, corny and honestly- yes you should take this little risk and watch it! :-)

As alsways..

LOVE & LIGHT

Better then chocolate - a movie

-Better then chocolate- is a comedy from the 90'tis and like the cover is showing you're guessing right, it is about two young girls. But also a mother who discover her child in new ways and herself and a brother who still has no borders and therefor is open to try new ways with a hot girl and also a man who is a women who is a friend. 

It's a comedy lead buy reality as it shows much of our live and what is going on but also the comic parts of it as mostly our life is funny if we look back at our drama days. Well, mostly. 

It is a little movie and you may say why seeing a lesbian movie? Why not is the answer as this movie also shows why not seeing it and enjoy. Some clichés may perish. For man and women. Of course as it is a comedy it is always a bit over the top but always with taste. The acting is sensual and earnest and the storyline fit in all aspect even thought some drama is maybe a bit over the top, but otherwise it matches all the way and you gotta laugh a lot. Though in the beginning of the Movie it takes time to get warm with it. But just a couple of minutes then the speed goes up in the storytelling. So, another DVD/ movie I can recommend without a doubt and be sure not only for lesbians! And after all, how could you not like that sweet couple! And the mother, well... you'll gonna love her in some way and the title of the movie is to discover on her or with her- who knows ;-).

Have a nice time watching the movie and as always I wish you all my...

LOVE & LIGHT

Stonwall

On the night from the 27. till the 28. June 1969 in Christopher Street started the first real protest against the oppression from the police. Violence was the answer. Enough is enough was the answer. Queer people showed that they are indeed people as everyone else. They are not only week and have wigs and are easy to harm. They can fight for the right to dance, to live, to love as it is the most natural thing in the world. Being part of society means to live free and be what you are instead of hide and feel ashamed. Being people and love another people is very natural and can never be sick. Because Love is Love, meaning- it's a chemical reaction, it's a physical attraction, it's in your gene, it's what we all can feel, if we live with an open heart and it's a spiritual reaction and practice. 
So violence was the answer cos they were not heard before. 
And today after- let's think about, after 45 years, are we on a better way?
Yes, in many ways and many countries but also no in many ways and countries. In some it even becomes worse. 
In 77 countries homosexuality is still forbidden and will get you in prison or even dead. 
77 countries where they hide, live in fear, fight in the background, fight in the dark, need to believe that they have a chance to be taken as a man of the world worth living and get no harm, no matter if an other man think this is right or not because he does not understand that it is natural because this man just believes in what he had heard and believes what he has read or not, or because he just think he can pic a sentence out of the bible and claim we have to live that way, thought he never read the hole passage and understood that the bible is not a book to pic what you like or not but more a history document to read and see an idea of living and stories to safe live and that this book was written in a time where we lived t.ex. in the desert and after all that this book is written so many years after Jesus died and is not written from one single person and the not even chronologically and it took like 300 years to write all the passages and then after all not all who were written have stayed in the book at last. 
But I am drifting away.
We have come a long way since that but after 45 years it feels not that much, because just now we realize that so much was hidden and is vulnerable. 
The open homophobia is breaking out and that's a god thing because now we actually know. 
Yes in the beginning we have been ignored. Then people laughed about us. Since Stonewall they openly fight us and this is the last phase before people learn to understand us and take us for real.
But just now they fight us harder then since a long time. They beat us, smash us and try to kill us. For what? For blindness, stupidity, and for the reason that they are unknown to the subject and lost empathy. 
Because if they had empathy they would never do this. 
So let's teach them empathy, love and difference as in the same time equality. 
Let's teach them to think with mind, body and soul.
Let's teach them to learn to do this by them self. 
But they won't listen - do you say.
Right, many don't listen when we speak up, stand up, show us.
We have to waken them- but how? More words? More demonstration in silence, dance or with kisses?
Or is violence a choice to wake them up and make them look and listen to us? As it was 1969 needed. Is is needed now? Do we need a new Stonewall to collect us, to show us and get straight to the point again and then show them how to do it the LOVE way?
Lot's of discussion are needed but at the end we have to remember where exactly we stand.
There we wil know what to do, because I think, we have to do it all together, all ways and choices.  All variations (except those who means we fight against something- this way we lose, all will lose). 
Because that is the only way to get everyone to listen, because some will only act when they see a silent parade, others when they se a documentation, others will react when we fight back with a fist or showing a kiss. Then others will react when we show mercy or when we say out and loud and proud - STOP-! or they are people who will finally listen to arguments instead of following blind a word of a priest. 
Yes the time has come that it is no longer acceptable to hate gays and lesbians, trans and bisexual. The time has arrived that we all have to fight for the right to love without fear. No matter who you are. The time is here to see the light and stop being blind. 
And yes violence will be a part of it sometimes, because sometimes it's the first step which is needed to get out of a situation. It's the right to fight back. 
So.... to all the haters and homophobes.
Forget that we are a doormat, whipping boys, victims or scapegoats for t.ex. politics who just dislike the western living style!
WE ARE PEOPLE OF THIS WORLD WORTH THE SAME AS YOU!

LOVE & LIGHT

International day of Kiss

Seems it's long, long time ago I wrote something here in my blog, but you know me, I only write if I feel it's right. Actually I had not much time and too much going on in my mind and life to write something good, but while the most now will write about soccer I think it's quite a good change to write about the actual day of kiss. Of course the day is made up by a bunch of guys while they took a beer or two and no one really knows why they made it up and what it is about.
It's sure not political reason, although a kiss is more then just a kiss, while I think it should be. 
In fact there are countries where you not kiss in open places and just remember not long ago in movies a kiss was seldom or if there was one it never where shown right or face to face. A kiss was in fact something very offensive and had the meaning of being a sexual slut. And still in some countries a kiss is more then that. It stands for a life you choose to live and I don't mean your sexual orientation. An open kiss in countries where homosexual can be harmed is a choice you make. The choice to be yourself and show who you are. Or where women have next to no rights. So they show, that they are a human who has the same rights like each of us should have. 
Then a kiss is of course different in it's interpretations. It can be friendly, show love, show kindness, be a sign of protest, be a sign of seduction, be an affront or be a candy and so on. And then a kiss is for most women more then just too lips meeting each other, while for many man kissing a stranger is nothing special. For most men it is just a kiss to heat up, sometimes just to get an erection, some times to show domination, some times just part of a conversation. But society have been teaching women since a long time that a kiss stands for love. Only love. Kissing for fun is still therefore an exception. 
Oh yes, a kiss on the neck is different to a kiss on the forehead, and different to a kiss on the hand. We kiss much in our live. Mostly of different kinds of love. Family, friends and society- all there you can find a kiss on the way. Political kiss while the cold war or the high society kiss check to check, the friendly kiss to a grandmother and the good bye kiss to a child, before it goes to school. But the latter is quite also kind of a modern thing. To kiss your child as children were long seen as little adults and never have been touched that way by parents. Oh there are still sects who forbid the first contacts with a baby after birth and also the kiss on the head or the hand to say hello my newborn. 
But as we are on children- here we have also unwelcome kisses. Kisses grown people are giving to children without the permission of them, without asking them or even the parents when it is just a hello kiss. But you know what I mean. So many children have to stand out sexual harassment. (And even adults get kisses from people against their will.)It's a awful thing, getting parts of the body kissed where an adult never should put his lips on. No matter if it's a stranger, someone from the family or the parents
But Allah's not every kiss from a a parent to a child is sexual abuse. That strange fear must gone too. How can a loving mother not give a kiss to his little child. 

The "Kiss" is usually a positive word and that's why the advertising campaigns use the kiss, or the idea of a kiss or just the image of a kissing mouth like Kylie used it for her CD. But here we see that the kiss is also a sexual thing, although it's more an erotic and sensitive thing. But the kiss is just the next step from our time we fed each other. Like animals still do with their babies. So it's kind of complex. 

But now, let's take another look on "The Kiss".
Few can kiss real good from the start. It is a thing to learn and train. The kiss you give your love. 
Oh what I've been through! Some kiss like a machine. Always the same way, always the same rhythm. 
Like a clock. Some tried to bite me, although I think that was not the idea. Some could not even move their lips. Some kiss like you have an illness and call it passion. Some opened their mouth and I was afraid to fall in. A kiss is lips to lips not a big gab, a big hole to a head. I don't want to dive into your stomach. If I wanted, I had better things to dive in. 
Saliva. Yes it's natural to have some in your mouth but be kind and don't forget to swallow it. If I want to take a bath, I take the tub. 
A tongue. Is an organ you can use, but use it gently not like a drilling machine or a hammer. And please don't start with the tongue play and please don't try to lick my face before I am getting warm in my passion for you. 
Sometimes I only get the big, big tongue and wonder how this is a kiss. Where have those people learn this? Porn? 
And yes sometimes -I confess- my kisses are called Jackhammer kisses, because my passion presses me into you. I've learned to let this go... more or lesson. But surly I don't start with a cold start kiss... 
What more? It's always good to have a fresh breath, but better brush your teeth not the minute before you'll kiss or take a bubble gum just before it, If I wanted a fresh bomb in my mouth, I do it by myself. Thanks. But I do wonder, in some movies you see the actors brushing their teeth and then the partner or lover comes into the bathroom and start kissing. I mean their not even finished and spat the toothpaste. I always think -those poor actors. Must be more disgusting then making a sex scene. But do people actually do this? 

But at least... I mean , when it is about kissing, start gently, just lips to lips and then go on. Smell each other and see each other, kiss other parts of the face, play and gently start taking the tongue, then go back to just kiss, but with a little pressing and feeling and passion and so on.... Take your time and try. Try different positions, different times of the day. Wake you man in the morning with a surprise kiss, softly, gently, but full of love and passion. Sometimes a puff of a kiss is more then all the big screen kisses you know. 
Isn't it crazy how much you can write about a kiss. Just a kiss. A thing which can give love, make people jealous, can keep peace of two countries or get you killed by the mob, can save your life and also change it. 
So can mankind survive without a kiss?
Think about it. 

Love & Light

Equality

When I think about equality, you may say that we have come far. 
But how far have we actually come?
To be true - not that far we should have reached. 
Thought we talk and write about this not just since a couple of years. We do this already quite a very long time. 
I mean let's take a closer look at it and start with, let's say Shakespeare. 
Mostly nowadays we can say we don't call our man next door our enemy. Mostly?
There may be some places where you can be sure, each and everyone is accepting one another. But there is no country in the world where we can't find someone who will takes his neighbor and call him a devil. And still we kill each other for we are not the same clan and still people fall in love with another and take a risk of getting killed or if they are lucky being just an outcast. 
So not so far with equality with our neighbors and people in town. 

Next try.... Marriage. Absolutely the same problem. We still have arranged marriage. We still have women who are not allowed to talk about who they are able to marry. We still make a difference of each other marriages. Still we say those are better then this and their have a less worth marriage. Still not everyone is allowed to marry. Still in many countries women lose practically with a marriage all her rights. Still in all countries most man and women are not having the same rights as marriage partners. It's still the man who says what is allowed and what all have to do. Still we make the thought a living that women have to stay home. 
Although in many countries partners have become more equal and both part of a marriage do the household, take the children and care for grandparents. Yes in some countries women can take the clothes they want. Women can have their own opinion. That's good. We are all the same stupid or smart. We are all capable of cherish a child and work for money. But it's a long way for equality. And longer if we think about getting divorced. There is more then less equality in how we treat people after a marriage, how we deal with a separation. No matter what country you're living. 

Another one....? Work: The salary is still a big difference in most jobs between man and women. Women get much less payed for same work. And the politic is not willing to let this change. Not because the common people don't want to. It's the industry who likes this cheap workers. So no equality at all, no matter how much we try to bring it up. A real change is only to get when women start to fight again for the right to get payed the same. As long most of them accept this situation, the industry and politic will keep it the way it is. There is actually no valid reason to stay on this point. The world and the economy will stay alive if women get payed the same.

Well, then man and women are not equal, and so women are still called the weak leak and so the disabled although they can do so much for us, even the homosexual are calling weak, wish is just too stupid, but then we also call people with other skin color weak, not worth the same- still it's a pain in the ass and so, so unbelievable that we keep on telling this to our children. 
The blindness of color should be already clear for all but still some think it's better to be religion blind and political blind and stupid blind to call other people less worth. 
The interesting fact is that the more mixed it is on a place the fewer people think so. 
But it is not only black against white. Which itself is so stupid, because no one is black and no one is white. We are all colored people or have you ever met a man who was really white? No and you will never. So the skin color is just a mix of different lighter or darker parts. 
But then again... it's not only "white" people who say black are less worth. Even dark colored people think so. They want lighter skin, lighter hair color. Even the stars want to be blond instead of taking their own hair color because it can bring more success and would get them more accept on the "white" side. Oh dear! But it's the same with gays who act more conservative and want to assimilate into the heterosexual way or a transwomen who don't accept that a women can have masculine parts. It's an disabled who tells himself he is worth less and so all the others disabled too and so he has not the same rights and must fight for each part of what? 

Can it be in this fight for equality that we are often the enemy ourself... the biggest enemy with our own thoughts? How women treat other women is often more against equality and having a free life an man would do. How once being religion and a believer is more worth then the guy from the church in the next village. How some jews think that in Israel should only live jewish people cos the rest is less worth and not clean- for example. 

Equality is still something we have to achieve. Because we are all worth the same. We are different yes, but the same worth. It starts in our mind. In the way we teach children, in the way we treat each other. In the way we look at each other and at ourself. There is no- but.... you're not less worth because of your education, although people tell you so. 

Let's start thinking about it without being blind because of fear, blind of politic or religion.

Love & Light

Nate and Margaret - a movie

Another movie to talk about. 
It's quite a different story, although not that unknown. 
What is it about? Somehow two people becoming friends. The young Nate and the lot older Margaret. 
No this is not another version of Harold & Maude.
Hr is a young and open guy, while she is a little prude and closed. She tries to be an easy person and is doing stand up comedy. 
They talk about everything and go together out, as Nate doesn't care about what other people think of them, not like Margaret who is following but looking around what other may think.
But nevertheless they seem to catch up from time to time and feel good together, have fun and share a lot. Seems they have much in common till one day- and we expect this- something new arrives and their friendship come to a test. Both have to come out of their bubble and shell and so ways getting apart. 
Now you could expect corny story telling or a lot of cliches coming up but this is not happening in this movie. 
The drama is told in a very smooth and soft way, although it is not like touching it like it is a vulnerably thing. The fun comes often unexpected and is kind of gentle. 
So it is not a loud movie and will not bring you to tears without end, but you want to follow the story to the end, knowing how they cope. 
Cose you see in some ways yourself, your own mistakes and stupid acting you do sometimes. You hope there is a way out and you know their can be. 
Well, this movie is one of those you will like watching, and afterwards you will think a bit about it. Not bad for a movie, as we have a lot where you feel nothing at all afterwards. 
Thought it's not a magic and magnificent film you will watch. Yes best to watch it with friends, maybe your best friends. 
If I had to rate it would be 4 of 5 stars... 

Love & Light

Sotchi

Say something, I'm giving up on you.... 
Well, I may be tired, but giving up is never a choice on my way through this live.
And today I try to bring up some thoughts for the finishing of the Olympic games. 
One is a line I read: Only the thinking person changes their mind. 
And another one I remember is that only the brave will change the world. Although you don't need to be brave like in a movie or a fairy tale, but thinking, seeing and trying to get as near to the truth is important when you want to stop being blind by choice.
So Sotchi. 
Is over now and if you where not to blind you saw a big shadow over the games.
Many shadows actually. Some have not the reason in Sotchi, like the "war" in Ukraine. But others are to find on other places too. Like how you treat human kind and human dignity by being blind.
Yes the competition where as usual, fine, and great and also we had our drugs addicts. 
The show was going on as usual but then not as usual. Things have changed. 
You cannot be proud about wasted money to corruption. You can not be happy about people not getting their salary for the hard work they did. You cannot shine when you are not ready with the most buildings. And absolutely you cannot be happy by taking the sports man and women into a dirty game of politic. 
The IOC has sold the best they have to nothing. 
Cos what is the victory worth they got? 
Like nothing.
Because you cannot show love, cannot show empathy, cannot show life as it is- colorful and different. Because we are all different, we are all human, and in this special matter we are the only animal who knows homophobia, transphobia and so on. 
In next to every race you find homosexual habits and this never harm anyone. 
No other animal is killing his brother, sister or whatever just because he loves the same sex. 
No other animal then the human race beats each other for just the reason you think different, love different. 
No other animal then the human race claims the happiness is in danger because of homosexual feelings. 
The human race is the only stupid one. 
In that case... ( and some others..)
This is or could be a scary thought, couldn't be?
But how can you say something is unnatural, when it is exactly that... NATURAL.. or as we say it these days: When did you chose to be heterosexual? Cos if being gay is a choice, so is being heterosexual.

So to know a truth is easy. To tell truth is much more. But to understand and live the truth a challenge and to take the truth is the hardest way. 
Yes I know that first you'll be ignored, then laughed out and then be tried to fight back, before you can just live. 
That's what gays and lesbians, trans and intersexual people want. 
Just live a life without fear, danger and with the same right to kiss, hold hands, talk about it and so on. 

Forget telling me the lines from the bible, we all know them but also all the other lines and maybe you know what them means... and by the way, if you show me them, do you live by them yourself... bet not. Anyway.
Forget telling me about traditional marriage, because if you did your homework, you knew that there is no such thing. 

So this Sotchi is a start to think about, first- where to let the games start, second- how big and important human dignity should be, and then where has the love gone?!
Because if this is all about money- and just now it is, then it should be dead.
Blinding people by sport is nothing new, but telling them hate is the new truth is simple a waste of money and so we give out a waking call into the world, cos it seems sometimes, that the worst situation collects the most people in front of the TV. How can you watch games painted in blood? 
You are less weak then you are lazy and being stupid by choice.
So...
Love is the reason we came together in Berlin to show respect, strength and power and to talk to people, to show them, to make them see. 
Love is the reason why people tell us how they secretly live together for 40 years. 
Love is the reason why we hear stories from russian tourist about sexual abuse and how this is used to take you into prison, letting you get raped and then throwing you out being an outcast. 
Love is the reason why we show the videos from russian Nazis how they harm young people just because they may be gay. 
Love is the reason why we talk about places in the world where you get killed because hate lead people to the conclusion you're not worth a damn and therefore you should be killed. 
Love is the reason why we can tell that all this may be in the name of religious but never in the name of Jesus, God or Love itself. 

I can understand, if you don't understand the way of life of another people but this should never be a reason to beat, harm, kill, abuse and forbid others to talk about. 
So...
Love is the reason why we try our best to show to those who are in fear, in situation with darker shadows then we have in our own country, that we don't look away, that we still are on to trust into, relate too and we are still in a fight for a positive, loving future, all around the world.
The drum beats will never end before love is acceptable for all.

Peace is what we all want- well most of us, if you are less selfish as some... 
Love is all we need and want and can get and even give, but only when we let lose of hate, of being blind by choice, of being stupid by looking away.

So.... giving hope is a choice we made and will make again and again.. spreading Love, the fire of colors, the chance of happiness in each and everyones live...!

Somewhere over the rainbow and beyond and behind there is not only a blue sky, there are birds which fly, so why shouldn't we? 

LOVE & LIGHT


--> and here are the pics of our last come together at the rainbow flame... yes we stood there day and night 24 /7 - all the 16 days of Sotchi, all the 15 nights...  more people then expected came and here we can shine a light, hope and send you all around the world a thought of a helping hand.... and we talked, showed and protected, no matter if it did rain, shine, or stormy wind blowed around our nose... thanks to everyone who stood up, helped making this happen... thanks to all the hearts and souls... thanks to all the love and light... thanks... enough is enough, stop homophobia and Love is not for propaganda.. Love is for free and the open minded.... stop being blind, stop looking away... breath and talk... say something good, say something loving.. 

the first have arrived...

somewhere over the rainbow...

 the skye is blue

where happy little birds fly

So fly with us... fly , fly high... fly with love and into the light... let the shadows pass by.... :-)

Make Love and lose the hate

That is maybe the most important thing in live. 
To love and let the hate go. 
Hate is just a sign of how week you are, how less you use your mind and soul and heart, how less you are, how deep you sit in shit. 
Yes some people think hate is such a powerful and strong instrument to keep up with, cos it brings fear and joy to you, the one who is beaten up another one and it gave you the feeling of being more worth, being stronger and better, but guess what..?!... and you know it deep inside you-  YOU ARE WEAK. 
A strong person never need to beat up someone, never need to bring fear, never need to arrest someone who just love another human, never need to claim wrong things as reasons for his actions.
If you are strong and true, then corruption is something you never need. 
If you live by your heart and not blinded by some folks, then you never need to kill an animal without need.
If you are smart, you never need to keep a child from having parents, no matter where they come from, as long as they love and care for you.
If you are taking words serious that we are equal, then you never need to push a women down, or a child or a disabled or someone with another religious believe or skin color.
If you are someone who claims to live the words of Jesus Christ, then you never need to beat a man or a women because they love who they love, cos love the man next to you, like you love yourself. 
Love is Love and if you put hate in in, then you are the one I think we have to call pity and sad and stupid.
Although in each of us there is love put in the heart from the beginning and hate is a learned thing.
To hate is learned. No child hates. It learns how to hate. It learns fear and fear makes hate. Fear makes blind and blind people have mostly closed eyes and forget to learn and think by them self and listen to their heart. 
It's much like this. 
Cos love will never destroy your marriage, the mankind or your children. 
Cos a gay man will never abuse your child and is worth his life and love.
So why beaten him up, just because he loves. 
He is born that way, and if you are heterosexual you are born that way too or did you made that choice? When, how and did you try the other side? 
It's natural, it always was part of this world, no matter if your human or an animal.
Why are you so afraid of sexuality...? Is it to keep an blind eye on your own situation, which is bad and your own fault.
Yes, I am so sorry, but you are the reason for the bad situation in your country as a human and it has nothing to do with your sex, with who you love and where you're from.

Dear Russians I respect people in general, but nevertheless I am very sad about some laws you have, sad about how you waste money to corruption, how you let human rights killed by your man and am so sad to see and hear how you go on beaten yourself, hurting yourself instead of making it stop, breath and think calm what to to, how to make it better, how to make it more shiny and brighter. 
Instead you kill, you beat, you hate and even you as a reader are not doing it exactly - did you tell something to your people to make it better? Did you say stop? Or did you just say it is all not that bad and the gays fault and other countries should not talk about your problems?
Well the LGBTI Community knows it very well what is going on and feels very well in their own heart what is going on in Russia, because we all have been going through this. That's why we keep up on the fight.

Yes it is not only in Russia people are becoming Nazis again. 
I remember very well the rising in other countries. But also I do remember how you started right after '89 to throw out the WolgaDeutschen, then the Jews and then the black and so on and now you have found the gays. They seem so weak, so easy to be beaten, the reason for your problems but you know it very well, there are not. 
Keeping a blind eye on your countries problems by killing gays won't help you to not drown in your own shit. 

And God will never love you for this, cos remember hate is the devils part. 

So that's why we go on the streets and light a rainbow flame. Cos we are all of different colors and the Olympic was in it's idea about peace, friendship and love. 
You betrayed the Idea, the love, the friendship, the sportsman, the children and your own future. 
Your Olympic is a sign of black shame. 
So shame on you. Shame on the IOC. Shame on Putin. Shame on all those who are in silence, because you let it happen and therefore you are part of this black and dirty game. So sorry to tell you this. 
And I know not everyone thinks the same in Russia. 
I know the industry doesn't care about people. 
I know the politics mostly even don't care about human rights.

But I know that I still keep on believing. 
I still keep on believing that the future can be made better. 
I believe that people can learn and be true to them self.
I believe we have a lot good in our baggage but also we have a way to go.
I believe that human rights should be the same for all people on this world, no matter where you are.
I believe that hate will kill yourself and cause hurting to all the people around you and you will pay a high price for it.
I believe and know it from my work, that when you are going to die, the hate will keep you maybe alive but for the price of pure pain and you will regret it so deeply if you never lived up to making peace.
I believe that you have to forgive yourself for the hate you lived but as hard this is, it is possible, but for this, you have to SEE and CHANGE into living a life in Love.

And I believe in Love.

LOVE & LIGHT

we are with our hearts by your side.... no one should be harmed just because he loves someone else

there is also a song called "Love is not for propaganda" on i tune to buy and every cent will be given to the LGBTI groups in Russia to fight for their rights to love

the rainbow flame will be there all the time the games are going on.. we will be there too, talk to you, so you can ask your questions, we will be there to protect human rights, the flame, the love and the hope

even Jane Fonda is watching and will take care of the flame on Potsdamer Platz in Berlin