Well we all saw and see the movies with all the lovely times in it, all the big love stories and romances...
My friend thinks films doesn't show the reality like wakin' up and smelling the workin' day comin' to you instead of smelling a fresh cup of coffee or the dear perfume of your loved ones...
He writes about hunting to get the bus in the mornin' and missing the romance in the daily live..
When do we really have the opportunity to experience the big romance like in the movies?
But I remember a few movies from nowadays which shows part of the reality we all know very well from everyday... Sure, a film used to be around 90 min long and so no wonder it can't show all the long discussions and fighting and searching and wakin' up in a hurry every day... but they do show a peace of it already. Bu I also remember some movies, old and nice who show these things too... of course all fits in the drama... or storyline... But would we like to watch these things so much?
Yes sometimes people which to have the same passion for romance like in the movies. Well it is maybe just a question of how you look on it. You think there is no romance in your life or just a bit to less to be real? Well then let's take a look...
Do we wish flowers from time to time from our beloved one... a massage or coffee to bring in the mornin' then maybe you have to talk about this, say what you would like to have, what you dream of and... most important do these things too do these things by yourself too, I mean bring the coffee, bring the rose to your beloved one...
Oh you are startin' now tellin' me the real live does have to much too less time and energy left to do such...
then... folks let's just remember... these little romantic things are easy to do... it's just to think of them, remember them and do it.
Is it that easy? Yes my dear friends it is, but we like to forget and have so many reasons just to do other way 'round...
Still there's a way to come back to the point where you started your time with your loved once, the time full of love and joy and ... a lot of free time...
How? Romance has to do with love and an open mind, open eyes and ears.... So open them again, see the little things around you... the lovely sunshine, the spring startin', the smell of the first cup of coffee, the warm bed, the way home, the nice flower on the table next to you.........
See them and smile and feel yourself happy, be grateful... seeing those little things, can make you start create little lovely and romantic moments, like to light a candle in the afternoon...
Be yourself worth it and give romance to yourself... because romance has less to do with two people loving each other.. it's more loving yourself in a positive way and to refer this to someone or just to you...
My friends when you come home tired after work and just lay down in the armchair and having your cat beside you and you feel powerless.. remember.. in a film, this is a romantic scene! You and your cat.. what a lovely pic!
So change your point of view...! Your live has a lot of little romantic pieces.. !
But then you ask me again.. What are with the big and passionated romantic moments...??? Well if you want them YOU have to create them, try to take your time for them... again... you once did it.... so you can do it again... still I think movies maybe are also a medium to remind us not to forget that romantic moments are able to liv in your life, no matter if you're single, a couple or whatever...
I know it seems to be a common thought out there that romance passed away after a little time when you are together with someone... well, that's untrue... it just depends on you!
LOVE & LIGHT
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