Human Nature

It's a human nature to be homosexual. Yes, it is. Proven so many times but then again, so many people still believe what they heard, that it is not. The claim comes from the interpretation of the Bible, the Koran or somewhere else. From a book who claims to tell the only truth, though no book is written from the only one- god itself. So it is a claim and no one has proven it right till today it is therefore a miracle, a history, a story some people take for telling others what to think and feel and ignoring the fact that you are born this way. But how to talk to people who don't want to listen or see another view or are ready to change their own or even question their opinion? I cannot make them change if they don't want it but what I can do is always and always talk about it, taking the facts, taking the reality, showing it, and asking them, asking again and again and again until they start moving and then I can try to give them things on their way so they can work it out for themself, because it is the only way to understand and change can be made.

So it is May and the http://dayagainsthomophobia.org/ IDAHOT Day is coming. To show and remember others we are still here, we are still human, we are still worth the same and we want it and we call for it- the same rights, the same love, the same possibilities. 

This day is an international protest day since 1990 when homosexuality has been taken away from the list of diseases.  

In Berlin I will try to help a group of people to tell about t.ex. Homophobia. 

A word wish is invented from New York Psychiatrist/-therapist Dr. Georg Weinberg and it makes that you call those ill who claims that homosexual are ill. 

A phobia by the way is an irrational fear of something but here it is not so much the fear as we can say today after all those years of fighting, talking and showing, outing and pouring. It's a combination of lies, wrong talking and of course it is mostly to see therefore with those who are unknown, religious and ignoring. The education is important when it is about being against homosexual, because if you don't know it is easier to believe a false claim. It is easier to fall for lies. And when you did not meet someone who is gay or lesbian or bi or trans you never saw a people and all you know is maybe from TV which shows just a small peace of the fact that all those people are like you. Normal too, crazy, lazy and also can be rich and colorful, but they even can be so much... as like you and me. 

The religious people are not all against gays and those "crazy" people. But some are blind because of religious. They take the brain out of mind and let only words of madness rule. Well, it is mostly more simple. They decide not to think and pick a line from a book even known if they take this one, they should know the whole sentence and even known they should take also the rest seriously but that is exactly the point. They try to avoid that reality. Sadly they try to get blinder. If such is possible and it sadly is. Forgetting love and all that stuff and putting hate instead and intolerance, but praying to respect each other... it is a paradox which makes it so dangerous. 

But here we have also the same things like with the unknown as many of them have low education or never meet anyone of that other group. Because confrontation in every day life use to change more to the positive and use to take out the hate and put in the understanding. Sure not always from day one but it is a process going on. Then they understand that we don't fight for a special privilege. We just want the same rights and taken seriously as human as we all are.

Here we come to ignorance. The devil lies in it. Homosexuality/Bisexuality and Transsexuality always show people their own face, because you have to ask yourself about that. What are you? Who are you? Am I week if I am those? No- you are not. But many believe that. So ignorance is the choice they make. Dangerous is this as it will lead to lying to themself and so they can become more easy victim of false play. 

That means we are putting role models in your lives so that everyone sees, we are the same and each is an own personality like all the rest of us. Because it is still much to say and show and many, many people to reach. 70 countries forbid homosexuality, even known it is natural, a human thing, that we are born this way and in 7 countries in this world we come to life and will be sentence to dead just because we are born this way, even known we harm no one because of being what we are in our sexuality. 

Isn't crazy that such a small thing leads to so much hate and what could we be if the world focus of real important things then what is happening in our beds?!

It is time to end the time of fear!

Let the sun shine in your hearts! 

Let love finally rule the world as we have it in all our songs!

Let there be a love revolution! 

Under the #IDAHOT2015 you'll find where we are the 17 of May or a day before. Ask us. Help us. Be with us. Read and learn. Tell and talk. I don't want more dead people on my bed.

In Berlin you'll will find us at the Brandenburger Tor, look for https://www.facebook.com/enough2014

LOVE & LIGHT

I'm so over black...

I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired of explaining why... all people who love like me should be treated equally.
Lesbians, Gays and Transsexual should deserve the same respect and they all - and also their families- need the same protecting from the country and it's law. And Children are as a part for us as for all the others too. 
We are allowed to work as doctors, nurses- save live, we are allowed to drive a car, a train, a tram and underground, also we are allowed to be your therapist and social workers and when you are dying we can be on your side to hold your hands...We make you proud for being a god and successful sportsman and bring home the medals. We can conduct research in the universities. You ask us when you need a teacher, a soldier, a cock or a bartender, a dancer, an architect or when you in need of an judge. 
We are all someones child, brother and sister, someones aunt or uncle, cousin or neighbor, friend or colleague. We've been called when you have trouble, are lovesick or need help with money. We are a very pleased guest to help renovating your home and building up your furnitures. And if you need a babysitter we come and let you party too...we also are career role models for you and others and then we also cherish our parents, grandparents as it is absolutely normal for all of us. 
In all those things our sexuality does not matter. You call us god, competent, love able, social, empathic, trustworthy. You see us, just as chaotic or structured as anybody else. As funny or earnest, stuffy and freethinking as someone else. Like a normal, lovely, obnoxious man with individual gifts and talents who is be needed. 
So this all is very normal... of course... nothing special but when it comes to marry and having own children, we suddenly turn into monsters..(?) Why?
Why is the love from a queer or transgender not worth the same? Why does it suddenly makes a difference? Is it we should be grateful for the confidence placed tolerance, like I once read? Isn't the real enemy of the marriage those who divorce, like I once read? I mean.. why should the homosexual undermine marriage? No - this is stupid and we in first sight are not begging for the equality in your churches. We just think it's time to wake up and be aware, that we naturally have the same rights in front of the law- so that should be given... I mean there are absolutely no important differences, that we should not be allowed to marry.. in fact I think, that to marry should be without the question of your sex. 
And by the way, all studies shows that children with gay parent aren't more gay later or suffer from having two mommies or daddies at home, like the most children have no bigger problems with having just a mom or a dad home, or their uncle is a parent for them...It's not what you have home, it's do you get love, understanding and help at home... the most suffer because people outside make them think they are not real, not god, not worth the same.. because of all those stupid prejudices. Like black children still suffer from those... and not because the parents are black.  All we love our children and have the same which and it is no more egoist from a queer to which a child then it is from a heterosexual. 
We all want the best for them. We all try to make it a better future for them and give them everything we have to make them feel god. 
Once again, children of queer do not become more often gay or lesbian then children who grow up on a grandmother, a father and a mother, or when their just with a mother or, ..or, or...

So do we really have to justify that we are the same happy, the same excited, unsure and proud like all other parents and that our child would get all of our love and support????

The truth is and was always.. we are family too... like you!
We already exist... and the way a family is today in so many parts of the world is so different, so untypical the "father, mother, child stereotype..." So how can anyone say the only real family for a child is this stereotype???!!!!
In each of these crazy and mixed families they cry, laugh, learn, teach, hold each others arms...sew, tinker and by presents... And I think of all those happy children ...but not where they come from... 
Like I once read.. it would be nice if one day this would be of no matter, because we are not alike, but equal. 

LOVE & LIGHT