Jetzt wollen sie auch noch die Kinder!

So oder ähnlich vorwurfsvoll schallt es einem gelegentlich entgegen, wenn man als Schwuler oder Lesbe sich zum eigenen Kinderwunsch oder überhaupt dem Kinderwunsch äussert.
Es sei unnatürlich, es sei unmoralisch und vor allem sind Kinder bei Schwulen doch ganz doll gefährdet, sexuell missbraucht zu werden und nur mit Müttern aufzuwachsen, da fehlt ja der Mann.
Eigentlich sollte man meinen, das ein schlechtes Bauchgefühl hier mit Logik schnell zu beseitigen sei, aber wie es oftmals mit Vorurteilen oder vermeintlichem Wissen ausschaut, bedeutet es leider oft erst einmal gar keine Meinungskorrektur.
Nicht nur haben Statistiken und Umfragen gezeigt, als auch Forschungsergebnisse, das es Kindern sehr wohl gut, gleich gut oder sogar besser bei gleichgeschlechtlichen Eltern haben und dort gut und liebevoll aufwachsen können und dies auch tun. Auch ist bekannt, das nicht die Eltern eine Herausforderung darstellen, sondern der Kindergarten oder die Schule wo andere Kinder mi dem negativem Bild von Schwulen und Lesben kommen. Da leider sowohl im Kindergarten, als auch in den Schulen die Realität gleichgeschlechtlicher Lebensweisen meist ausgespart bleiben, erleben die Kinder weder positive Aufklärung, noch das kennen lernen von einem anderem Lebensmodell überhaupt, denn auch Single-Mütter und Väter werden gerne ignoriert, erst recht andere Formen der Familienkonstellationen.
Das Kinder immer Mutter und Vater brauchen ist auch widerlegt, erst recht wenn es darum geht, das Kinder Vorbilder beider Geschlechter brauchen. Diese finden sie im Alltag, in der Schule, im Kindergarten, in der Familie, bei den Nachbarn zu genüge.
Das Schwule Kinder sexuell missbrauchen würden ist den nach wie vor geförderten Falschinformationen geschuldet, die Pädophile mit Schwulen gleichsetzt, was als Unverschämtheit und drastische Lüge anzusehen ist und endlich ausgemerzt gehört.
Wie so oft finden wir aber die Abneigungen vor allem da, wo Menschen kaum bis gar nicht mit Schwulen und Lesben konfrontiert sind. Kein unbekanntes Phänomen, denn dies ist uns beim Ausländerhass u.a. auch sehr gut bekannt oder generell bei Gesellschaften, die sich von anderen abkapseln und daher sich ein Bild geben lassen, das wenig bis gar nichts mit der Realität zu tun hat.

Ein Vorurteil aber sollte noch lange kein Argument sein, Anderen Rechte zu verwehren. Unwissen oder unklare Bilder sollten keine Begründung für Diskriminierung sein. Da dies aber oft der Fall ist, zeigt dies auch, wie viele sich lieber dumm halten, als zu informieren und sich mit der Sache auseinander zu setzten.
Einen Wunderbaren Blogeintrag habe ich zu diesem Thema unter:
http://laluneuntermregenbogen.blogspot.de/
gefunden.
Zwischen den Tagen also noch einmal Etwas zum lesen, was auch dieses Jahr in vielen Ländern die Gemüter und Gerichte bewegt hat und in Deutschland leider von der Politik lieber mit Ignoranz und einem schlechten Bauchgefühl, statt mit Kopf und Hirn, behandelt wird. Statt das Gesetzt zu vertreten, werden eigenen vermeintliche Meinungen in der Politik umgesetzt. Gerade die Bundeskanzlerin darf sich eben nicht auf ihr Bauchgefühl als Begründung berufen, sondern muss im Namen aller Bürger handeln, so wie sie ihren Eid geschworen hat. Jedoch bricht sie diesen lieber am laufendem Band, als das sie tut, was sie tun sollte. Politik, statt Machtgehabe.

Licht & Liebe

Make Love and lose the hate

That is maybe the most important thing in live. 
To love and let the hate go. 
Hate is just a sign of how week you are, how less you use your mind and soul and heart, how less you are, how deep you sit in shit. 
Yes some people think hate is such a powerful and strong instrument to keep up with, cos it brings fear and joy to you, the one who is beaten up another one and it gave you the feeling of being more worth, being stronger and better, but guess what..?!... and you know it deep inside you-  YOU ARE WEAK. 
A strong person never need to beat up someone, never need to bring fear, never need to arrest someone who just love another human, never need to claim wrong things as reasons for his actions.
If you are strong and true, then corruption is something you never need. 
If you live by your heart and not blinded by some folks, then you never need to kill an animal without need.
If you are smart, you never need to keep a child from having parents, no matter where they come from, as long as they love and care for you.
If you are taking words serious that we are equal, then you never need to push a women down, or a child or a disabled or someone with another religious believe or skin color.
If you are someone who claims to live the words of Jesus Christ, then you never need to beat a man or a women because they love who they love, cos love the man next to you, like you love yourself. 
Love is Love and if you put hate in in, then you are the one I think we have to call pity and sad and stupid.
Although in each of us there is love put in the heart from the beginning and hate is a learned thing.
To hate is learned. No child hates. It learns how to hate. It learns fear and fear makes hate. Fear makes blind and blind people have mostly closed eyes and forget to learn and think by them self and listen to their heart. 
It's much like this. 
Cos love will never destroy your marriage, the mankind or your children. 
Cos a gay man will never abuse your child and is worth his life and love.
So why beaten him up, just because he loves. 
He is born that way, and if you are heterosexual you are born that way too or did you made that choice? When, how and did you try the other side? 
It's natural, it always was part of this world, no matter if your human or an animal.
Why are you so afraid of sexuality...? Is it to keep an blind eye on your own situation, which is bad and your own fault.
Yes, I am so sorry, but you are the reason for the bad situation in your country as a human and it has nothing to do with your sex, with who you love and where you're from.

Dear Russians I respect people in general, but nevertheless I am very sad about some laws you have, sad about how you waste money to corruption, how you let human rights killed by your man and am so sad to see and hear how you go on beaten yourself, hurting yourself instead of making it stop, breath and think calm what to to, how to make it better, how to make it more shiny and brighter. 
Instead you kill, you beat, you hate and even you as a reader are not doing it exactly - did you tell something to your people to make it better? Did you say stop? Or did you just say it is all not that bad and the gays fault and other countries should not talk about your problems?
Well the LGBTI Community knows it very well what is going on and feels very well in their own heart what is going on in Russia, because we all have been going through this. That's why we keep up on the fight.

Yes it is not only in Russia people are becoming Nazis again. 
I remember very well the rising in other countries. But also I do remember how you started right after '89 to throw out the WolgaDeutschen, then the Jews and then the black and so on and now you have found the gays. They seem so weak, so easy to be beaten, the reason for your problems but you know it very well, there are not. 
Keeping a blind eye on your countries problems by killing gays won't help you to not drown in your own shit. 

And God will never love you for this, cos remember hate is the devils part. 

So that's why we go on the streets and light a rainbow flame. Cos we are all of different colors and the Olympic was in it's idea about peace, friendship and love. 
You betrayed the Idea, the love, the friendship, the sportsman, the children and your own future. 
Your Olympic is a sign of black shame. 
So shame on you. Shame on the IOC. Shame on Putin. Shame on all those who are in silence, because you let it happen and therefore you are part of this black and dirty game. So sorry to tell you this. 
And I know not everyone thinks the same in Russia. 
I know the industry doesn't care about people. 
I know the politics mostly even don't care about human rights.

But I know that I still keep on believing. 
I still keep on believing that the future can be made better. 
I believe that people can learn and be true to them self.
I believe we have a lot good in our baggage but also we have a way to go.
I believe that human rights should be the same for all people on this world, no matter where you are.
I believe that hate will kill yourself and cause hurting to all the people around you and you will pay a high price for it.
I believe and know it from my work, that when you are going to die, the hate will keep you maybe alive but for the price of pure pain and you will regret it so deeply if you never lived up to making peace.
I believe that you have to forgive yourself for the hate you lived but as hard this is, it is possible, but for this, you have to SEE and CHANGE into living a life in Love.

And I believe in Love.

LOVE & LIGHT

we are with our hearts by your side.... no one should be harmed just because he loves someone else

there is also a song called "Love is not for propaganda" on i tune to buy and every cent will be given to the LGBTI groups in Russia to fight for their rights to love

the rainbow flame will be there all the time the games are going on.. we will be there too, talk to you, so you can ask your questions, we will be there to protect human rights, the flame, the love and the hope

even Jane Fonda is watching and will take care of the flame on Potsdamer Platz in Berlin

I'm so over black...

I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired of explaining why... all people who love like me should be treated equally.
Lesbians, Gays and Transsexual should deserve the same respect and they all - and also their families- need the same protecting from the country and it's law. And Children are as a part for us as for all the others too. 
We are allowed to work as doctors, nurses- save live, we are allowed to drive a car, a train, a tram and underground, also we are allowed to be your therapist and social workers and when you are dying we can be on your side to hold your hands...We make you proud for being a god and successful sportsman and bring home the medals. We can conduct research in the universities. You ask us when you need a teacher, a soldier, a cock or a bartender, a dancer, an architect or when you in need of an judge. 
We are all someones child, brother and sister, someones aunt or uncle, cousin or neighbor, friend or colleague. We've been called when you have trouble, are lovesick or need help with money. We are a very pleased guest to help renovating your home and building up your furnitures. And if you need a babysitter we come and let you party too...we also are career role models for you and others and then we also cherish our parents, grandparents as it is absolutely normal for all of us. 
In all those things our sexuality does not matter. You call us god, competent, love able, social, empathic, trustworthy. You see us, just as chaotic or structured as anybody else. As funny or earnest, stuffy and freethinking as someone else. Like a normal, lovely, obnoxious man with individual gifts and talents who is be needed. 
So this all is very normal... of course... nothing special but when it comes to marry and having own children, we suddenly turn into monsters..(?) Why?
Why is the love from a queer or transgender not worth the same? Why does it suddenly makes a difference? Is it we should be grateful for the confidence placed tolerance, like I once read? Isn't the real enemy of the marriage those who divorce, like I once read? I mean.. why should the homosexual undermine marriage? No - this is stupid and we in first sight are not begging for the equality in your churches. We just think it's time to wake up and be aware, that we naturally have the same rights in front of the law- so that should be given... I mean there are absolutely no important differences, that we should not be allowed to marry.. in fact I think, that to marry should be without the question of your sex. 
And by the way, all studies shows that children with gay parent aren't more gay later or suffer from having two mommies or daddies at home, like the most children have no bigger problems with having just a mom or a dad home, or their uncle is a parent for them...It's not what you have home, it's do you get love, understanding and help at home... the most suffer because people outside make them think they are not real, not god, not worth the same.. because of all those stupid prejudices. Like black children still suffer from those... and not because the parents are black.  All we love our children and have the same which and it is no more egoist from a queer to which a child then it is from a heterosexual. 
We all want the best for them. We all try to make it a better future for them and give them everything we have to make them feel god. 
Once again, children of queer do not become more often gay or lesbian then children who grow up on a grandmother, a father and a mother, or when their just with a mother or, ..or, or...

So do we really have to justify that we are the same happy, the same excited, unsure and proud like all other parents and that our child would get all of our love and support????

The truth is and was always.. we are family too... like you!
We already exist... and the way a family is today in so many parts of the world is so different, so untypical the "father, mother, child stereotype..." So how can anyone say the only real family for a child is this stereotype???!!!!
In each of these crazy and mixed families they cry, laugh, learn, teach, hold each others arms...sew, tinker and by presents... And I think of all those happy children ...but not where they come from... 
Like I once read.. it would be nice if one day this would be of no matter, because we are not alike, but equal. 

LOVE & LIGHT

2012- a waking call?!

Where do we go in our future ....right now is again much written about and spoken ... 2012 is the time for change?

We have the economic crisis, the emerging water scarcity, an incipient shortage of fossil fuels and we do not live on the whole term. Million people live on less than one dollar a day, millions will die because they have not enough to live.

Have we reached the abyss of perdition? Or we can sure hope it gets better, that our descendants will also be able to enjoy the life and joy to this planet?

Is it not about time to change, to change your mind?

Let us finally break from all the materialistic prison.

We all have that choice.

Most people don't want to see or admit it, I mean, really see,that we are on the ground of a multidimensional catastrophe. We live as if it would not affect us, as if it can only affect the others and the danger is not already on our doorstep. We do not usually want to acknowledge. We suppress the inevitable consequences of our actions better.

I mean, our agricultural industry is destroying the soil and poisoning them. It makes people sick and dependent. They pollute the water we have pollute our garbage for a long time too. The the rest of the industry is contaminating also 'cos they does not care about cleanliness and environmental standards. It is all costs and profits. We pay the price!

And yet for most of us it is clear that this system can not endure any more. This can go on another way and so this way is clearly impossible to go on.

We have become a consumer society, which is apparently willing to pay a very high price. We take everything for granted and to have removed in our zeal for industrialization of nature. We have largely forgotten about.

Sometimes we have therefore a mood of despondency, what makes people susceptible to the apocalyptic doomsday theories. Such theories have, however, never materialized. But, we are in many ways close to the conditions and possibilities of such scenarios.

The effects of our trade is taking on ever greater proportions. It not only feels as if we are at a turning point. It is also a turning point in our consciousness?

Because the current system does not ensure justice, nor for the environment and wants it not good.

All efforts are made to the effect of individual people or groups. Unfortunately, these groups are still, these people are not really taken seriously. They are often ridiculed and dismissed as cranks. As is often said that it was all well and good but you could not take it so seriously or implemented for all. Why not. What makes the responsible way of life less valuable than an irresponsible?

Why are you afraid of the individualization in the healthy sense. Meditate, do yoga, eat organic, grow organically and if it goes well economically. You take care of themselves and their bodies, but also to the consequences of their actions. You want to be with yourself and with nature in a pure and is determined primarily by himself and not be other-directedness.

After all, you've already noticed. We are a world most people live in the strange, as determined by Google, Facebook and Co in the Internet industry, money, media, advertising and politics. Free people are not wanted by the top rulers. There is the phrase of free men, but it is not to be lived. And so do most of us with even more diligently and promote foreign destination yet, without realizing it.

Oh, you've already noticed it, but what have you done so far, so it is less? This is our next problem. Part of it has been noticed, but still does nothing. Why is this so? Why most people continue to live as usual, even though they know it works and should work differently?

Well....

The majority of us will surely heard of the Maya and their prophecies to 2012. It was called a long time they speak of doomsday. Today we know that for the Maya only the 5000-year-old Mayan calendar cycle ends and it dawns a new era. So it's a time of change.

Astrologically, this is indeed the case, because among other things, changing the position of the Earth to the sun in relation to Jupiter and in relation to the Milky Way. In addition, the sun will probably reverse its magnetic field and thus it comes to secrete massive amounts of radiation, in the direction of earth and this will cause disruption in the Internet, in the power circuit and like this. We also speak of the dawning of the Aquarius age, due to the current constellation of stars that occurs now. It also speaks of the feminine influence that we should meet the stars.

Does this mean the economy will collapse next year? Well, it does not need a scientist to see that there are huge problems and hardly any rescue in sight. Will it be chaos? I guess so, because it has already begun. Will there be a victim? Wars? More Poverty? Yes I think it is, but apparently people need even chaos, to create something new out of it can.

Obviously a real rethink and redirect the action takes place only when the chaos has occurred.

It is therefore important, if there already are people who develop alternatives, share them and live. If there are people who already have made their connection with nature again or are about to produce them again. When models are developed, the one back in the survival of small farms and thus make possible and attainable for everyone. Thank God there are many projects and all these small groups, communities and individuals out there in the world who believe in a positive future, work on them. not let themselves be swayed. The more justice, responsibility to stand up for yourself and others and with nature and give us hope.

.........

They all can be in times of chaos our guide when we let them take us to the orient instead of those up on the top to let them tell us what we are allowed to say what to think what we can and should do.

Because let's face it, the economy, politics and the controllers of the Internet can not be trusted when it comes to our future. They will not help us. They will not change the world a better place, because they do not want it.

It's up to us, the ordinary citizens, the people. Every single human being. Are you not doing anything, nothing will change. Will you do something, there is a chance.

Will you consider as the biologist of the soil? Will you help out a life cycle that was poisoned to make a living again? Will you ensure that drinking water can again be clean and free of drugs, chemicals and things like this?

Will you give up exotic fruit? Will you recognize your embedding in nature, will you rediscover? Will you really understand that YOU are part of it and are subjected to the same rules and just as vulnerable as every plant, every animal in the world are?Will you?

Will you help to make sure all of our water is not the corporations! Check to make profit with it. Remember, there are already buying up water rights, as this may seem crazy. They are being bought by millionaires, and then, when the time comes to sell us more expensive, so they can be even richer. It's about greed, it's about power, it is nothing else. The conscience is repressed by those who take our money out of pocket. And they have willing helpers of the people.

Only without the water the man can not survive. Just like he can not survive without clean air. Will you help to prevent this, make sure that everyone can afford water and clean air?

For the current financial crisis once said the economist and author Bernard Lietaer following:

"There is a structural crisis. Within the monetary system will not solve the problem of climate change, and not poverty or unemployment, or the problem of aging of Western society and thus the problem of pensions. All conventional, national funds are the same type: There are bank debt. All borrow something from the bank. The money will get what is needed. Thus also increased. It is therefore a monoculture. But unfortunately, monocultures are not very reliable, stable systems. The smallest unexpected event and the whole system collapses. So you are not at all durable. "

This can be represented using a metaphor similar to well. If you drive a car without brakes, you will build an accident. Switch the driver out, so take a better, more experienced and he will build an accident too as long as you are without brakes. No one is saying here, that's the driver's fault, but it was on the machine. So it is with our money system, a system with no brakes. It may therefore be a change of personnel in the system but this will not saved or improved as long as it exists without brakes.

So what is going on 2012? Are we going to enter a time that will make us aware of the disrespect that has been shown to the earth and also towards life?

So we will break the formula of capitalism, which is nothing sacred? Will we change our thinking and take instead of -which brings us no money has to flies out- and prefer to say: what is not god for us, we'll leave. ?

If it does not even dawn on you slowly, all of our crises are crises of confidence? Through our non-conscious actions, we add to ourselves and the earth, the greatest damage which are possible. But why are we waiting on our Savior, for someone who takes us by the hand that saves us, take care of everything for us again and everything will turn out fine?

It's all our fault that we experience this time as we experience it. Even when Jesus does come or aliens would, then we would have to take care of our own problems, because we have caused them. The tool consists of all of us already. We have the resources, technology and know-how to make the current state to one hundred percent success for everyone, without destroying our nature here. Isn't that fantastic?

The current ecological crisis has the potential of us weld together, to come together.

And how about: Apocalypse as the revelation of the reality? We recognize the reality ..

This can only welcome. Let us be optimistic and to use the next few months intensively.

Let us mobilize together, so we manage the leap into a bright future. Brings together the creativity! Let's try it! If we accept the truth and we can hope.

But, for all we have to finally get out of our comfort zone. We do not like that normally, but without it there is no progress., No chance for a livable future.

LOVE & LIGHT