Why is it good to move?

Just now I moved into another flat with people together and we share a flat but are nor family or friends. We do it like many others in our towns these days for several reason and mostly because we don't have an own flat and it takes time to get one and you need not only a job, also the right amount of money and luck. 

I just moved the fifth time in nearly one year. Two times in Sweden and now three times in Germany. 

You can call it a hard way to live and yes it is not easy to just have two or three baggages with your things and nothing more as it is sure more easy to travel and move that way. 

Yes, you always have to start anew and look around what is in your new street and area, but as this may sound negative on first sight, it is a question of your thinking and so it can be actually more positive. How? You move not only with your body, you do so with your mind too and discover your town or the town you live in a new way. 

Which keeps you busy but also fresh in mind and wondering why so many people decide to stay on same place all the life. They have mostly maybe just learn it that way and maybe they heard about that and the changing which may or may not come and this scares them? 

We humans are so scared of so many and have been the surviver because we liked to discover new places and old places new. Sometimes I wonder has this gone, this spirit of wanting to know more. Has it? But then most people sure never were much into risking too much in every time episode of human kind. Sadly I think they miss a lot and not only to get to know more about the place also about them self and life itself. 

This makes me thinking of a fact which could make me angry any time but is just sad. The closed mind of people or the choice they made just to see thinks from their point. Sometimes when I read comments on Facebook where people forget that people have a life and it is so different and we don't really know who others think and why they act this or that way but instead of thinking twice they choose to ignore and fight against others. Sure just with words but so stupid. We are on a verge where things need to change but we can't be all on same place on the same time. Especially when it is about human rights. We all have our everyday life. Like it or not but to fight for t.ex. nature rights does not mean you can and will do it all your time and on every demonstration. But also we focus nowadays far to many times on the difference instead of what we have in common. Another reason why I think it is very healthy to move. Move from your space and try something new. Open your mind and put away what you have believed till today or what you believe to know as many thoughts of you are just your collection of silence thoughts. Open up and be more grateful for what is functional and what you can do instead of blaming others not to come on the same time. Listen more carefully too. And let lose all your fights you had (with someone else). They are gone, matter no more. You are just a sad figure if you keep them alive. 

We all have our opinion but we should not forget how easy others will take it away from us to first please us and then fight us. Those people are just waiting out there for a chance to shine from your light but their will darken your sight. 

So question what you see and what is going on.

Question before you suggest.

Question before you shout and say it is so, as you might be wrong bur once the word is out you have no control over it anymore, whatever you do.

With these thoughts of mine I leave you and wish you all my Love & Light

Enough is Enough

That was the name of a song not long ago and it feels still right to listen to it, but there are other reasons to think that way too. 
Not long ago in the last days of August we had these words spelling over the streets and as it may seem far away it is still near. The situation has changed so little that we have to go on telling this to all the people out there who forget to use their heart and mind and remember what it is about being human.
So some people, to be clear seven, decided to do more then lip play... They got together to gather people together to walk on the street and show off that we are real, we are worth living and loving. That it is a human right to handle things with us in a fair way and with love too. All the hate and lies are just so sad and stupid but out there so much to find. 
So we decide stopping be a victim, of words or racquets, of lies and people with hate inside and blindness. Also all this bitterness has to wash away on every side.
So we, the people, part of the folk, came. 
They say we were just 2.000 or so, but that was just when we came together to the meeting point, but when we started we already had the number of over 5.000 and became next to 10.000 over the march and in the end we still had those 5.000 hard believer for equality and the rights to love. 
Yes all started to set a sign for the gays and lesbian and transgender in Russia, but became much more as it is a fact that in many other countries homosexual get beaten, killed, punched and throw away from what they love and who they love. 
So we showed up to these countries but also after just a couple of weeks after all this started to set a sign- it was very clear, because the Olympia is coming up in Russia and Putin had some bad, new, rules and laws set in, it was time to react. 
Not only people in other countries should hear and see our acting and standing up for our and their believe, also we wanted to show our own government to stop the silence, to take a stand for human rights. They always talk, but never walk the walk. 
Sadly they did not react much and many believe all we did was just another kind of lip play. 
But as it happens so are people still hurting, beaten and punished for just the way they are. Just for a natural way of loving and being. 
Just right now we had a famous Drag-mother- beaten up so hard on the streets after her gig she did, that she had to stay in the hospital and frighten how it will go on, like with her eye- will it function again or stay blind?
Don't get me wrong, there are worst out there but we have to make a stop in the earliest way, like on work when someone is behaving homophobe. 
Courage is not a worth is an act. Standing up is courage.
But for this you have to know yourself and wake up, be aware of what is around and how it is meant to be or should be.
By the way- The name of that person is Gèrome Castell. And only she lived a very own way and does not look like a clichè of a man or a women, the pain was given. 
That was a waking call, another one, but a call which woke up also the press and many people for now. 
Another acting up is happing because of this and that is that there will be a Show on the 4. November in the "Wilden Oskar" in Berlin to support not only a famous person, it is also to support the right to stay alive. 
I mean you may have problems to deal with the way another people lives but no one should have the right to beat and kill you for being different. 
After all- those people, different people have given mankind so much more that mankind would be different if they would not have exist. 
Great people where those, in good and bad. 
So no matter what, I guess you will like to live in peace and that is what we are fighting for instead of fear, cos if you or someone needs fear then it shows just how weak you are, how sad you are and how unsure you are and how less you care about yourself. 
Remember that. 
And why not- decide for the side of the sun and love. It can be a challenge in the beginning but it is possible and in the end more easy to live up to then hate and bitterness and things like this.

still so many countries who fear homosexual and wants to  kill them

it can rain, but love is never giving up

remember those who can't be with us and are death because they do care to love

and here we have the flyers for the support show... come if you can.. Revolution of LOVE is only real when we live it!

LOVE & LIGHT

Parada-- a movie for everyone and also for the homophobic

First of May the international day of work... Well am not gonna write about this today... but welcome into the month May and I hope it will be a good for everyone...

Today I will write about another Movie I think you should watch if you have the time or possibilities.
The Play is taken place in ex-Jugoslavia and the idea is from a real happening from 2008 where on an open Place in Belgrade people where hurt and killed by nazis and hooligans next to the police who just stood there and did nothing then watch. A shame. 
So the core of the story has a true event.
And now, what is it about? 
Two pairs of which each one is fighting for his relationship. A partner in crime they became. Something like this happen. Means, you see how much you are able to do for your beloved one and so the man who wants to marry his girlfriend has to help another man who wants that his man can make his dream real. A dream of a parade who will show that it is o.k. to be gay and also the wedding will be made by this man with the dream of freedom. Also the movie shows the time after the war. 
First time a movie from ex-Jugoslavia is made to show the peace time and it therefor shows the war veterans and the live they are living and the connection they have. Although they are the losers, but so it seems that a pair of losers is never alone. 
A serious issue is here shown in the style presented by means of the drama and tragedy, but most of all of comedy. Which is the best they could do, because you smile a lot, laugh a lot and after all the cry and  joy you had you just think in the end, that this movie was and is wonderful. 
And most important I felt very grateful for the life I am living and also I am so much aware of the fact that we still have to do a lot and go on the streets. 
I also heard that nazis and hooligans after watching the movies hate the movie because they could not hate gays anymore. That's not that bad.
But let's go on...
The lines are great and situation comedy makes it to believe that all this is or could be real and the actors just play so nice and every figure you see.. you just like to follow and watch. The voltage decreases steadily until the end.
So, this movie also shows "normal" people in meaning of look and acting. Not like the hollywood beauties and beasts. Yes that maybe needs a little work from you, when you watch the movie in the beginning, cos it takes time in the beginning to know each human and who he is or what he is and that is very good I think. But don't worry it doesn't take a long time. 
The start in a drama style and then break it with suddenly comedy coming up... smart. Lovely situations. Just can tell this. The rest is what we call spoilers. So you gotta watch the movie to get to know more. 

LOVE & LIGHT