It's the end of the year and so... (part1)

Hej, 

what a year and I am still thinking how to put it all in a blog but after all thinking through I only can say... well, I put it in several pieces.

Starting with this one. 

Conchita Wurst who won the Eurovision was a peak this year in many ways. Not only a man as a women with a beard, but also as a talented singer with a song written in the stars. That women figure Conchita represent much more then just a drag queen singing a song. The song was -Rise like a Phonix- and it is a story we all should remember from time to time, that we can rise from ashes and dark times and that we can change ourself into what we are and want to be. A song about the power of respecting yourself sang by an artist who shows respect and love to his figure, to his fans and all the other people and most of all to himself. A man who knows his path and has understood a very important lesson. The lesson to make each game your own, if you want to be a free man.

Make your own game, go your own path and yes it is o.k. to meet others, to learn from others, to go with them together but at the end, you do all your decisions by your own. 

Actually we do every decisions by our own but are often unaware of them. So this is what this song also tells us to do your steps with an open mind and soul and being aware of yourself. 

This is surly what many voters felt and the fact that you can really be what you want as long as you take it seriously and honest. Above the fact that the show was like Hollywood and more then a simple act but simple the singer was in his way of representing his work. This is power in pure form. This was beauty in pure form. 

But the victory of Conchita was also a sign, that many people had their own mind as it shows in the results that the jury was much more conservative and backwards then people were. 

This surely was hope for many as we know very well that in many countries people like Conchita have no rights or less then everybody else, thought it never should be that way as we are all humans and deserve the same rights. 

To make Conchita iconic it needs more then just a great personality. It needs people who believe also in the future of such work and statement. And here luck was on the side of Conchita Wurst as she was loved from big names. Designers love her, other artist love her and even far away artist gave a lovely comment on her acting and singing. 

Not that big names are all, but they help to keep a positive energy around the artist Conchita and so she can go on working and telling what she has to tell.

The man behind Conchita knows very well what he is doing with giving a statement as Conchita and he also knows about the chance of this and the power he can achieve. 

But beauty and so becoming an icon needs also to have the luck to be on pictures who are timeless, like the ones from Julian Laidig. https://www.facebook.com/campact?fref=ts#!/julianlaidig.photography

He was and is one of those who made Conchita look strong, exquisite and beauty and helped in that way to send out the message Conchita wants to send out.

Iconic picture from a photo artist is what many dream of and as it is, he is also one of the people standing behind the project: enough-is-enough/ https://www.facebook.com/enough2014?fref=nf

A project which tries to lift the question of human rights for gays, lesbians, transgender and so on.

Those people try to be a voice in the name of equality and freedom.

They stand up and make it impossible to be ignored by haters and so many other people followed their call to come together, went on the streets and demonstrated or to getter around a flame of hope and ready to talk to people passing by on the streets about the situation of gays, lesbians, transexual, and many more. Asking questions like- When did you decide to be heterosexual- for no one does decide to be lesbian, gay or or or ... and sure no one would if this means a life of fighting and badder life situation. 

Those people like Julian took their time and went on for the right to love each other no matter what and so they had sleepless hours and worked so hard that other could feel, here we have someone who takes the situation for real. For as far to many are still talking but not acting. You know the saying- do the walk, undo the talk- or so it was...

Making our voices seen and our life worth living is what those people do with keeping up the good work. Though we have to learn more, much more like instead of fighting against, we should fight for something we want to put the focus of people of what we want because otherwise they see what we never needed and remember just this and the situation will stay the same. We also have to learn that standing up for the same right does never mean we have to love us with every single atom, but respect us and see us. Yes seeing each other as humans is a lesson we all have to remember and learn again, as we forgot. Seeing means to take us as we are with all our damage, with all our love, with all our mistakes, with all our different positions in life and that we are all worth the same. No one can say to know it all and therfore better as no one does. But many still act that way. Many still fight each other because of jelousy. Sadly only the haters win such games.

But also this year was a year were we got a big backlash in the rights for the LGBTI community but then also many success as the USA is nearly clear to open marriage in all states for each and everyone and of course some other countries did the same, thought some where kind of unexpected and the world still turns and the human kind still survives and the sun still shines and the life still goes on. 

The stupid believe of the gays fault is just this- a wrong believe as those GAYS are just humans.

So lucky that also more stars in sport, media and politic made it out and stand their ground.

But also we saw how many gays like to be blind and fight themself, hate themself and being facist with living gayness in shadow. Living a lie and that is such a sad thing that I only can pitty them, as they take away their own luck.
Because remember in the end of your life all that matters is: All you need is love!

LOVE & LIGHT