Do you feel you're drown in fear‏?

Is mankind going mad? Or are we just bonkers?

Seems autumn let us easely feel that things are going to en end, also that some things seems to be hopeless. Yes some people feel already hopeless and I mean with life itself, with the politics and the way we have our work done. 

Have we failed? 

Just now it seems in many parts of the world that out of the earth comes hell. Many times this hell is colored in the name of god. 

When you read the news you may feel there are more wars then ever going on, but actually there are not. 

But the wars have changed and became bigger, harder and worse in any meaning of the word. 

We fight with words and we fight with guns. We fight us till death do us part and we fight mostly so blind. 

We fear that war can come back even in countries where war was long time thought to be gone but let's look on the streets and there are the so called soldiers. 

We long believed it was just about oil and water but actually it is mostly about power and systems. Which system do you believe in.  Who has the most power.

To be clear there are all in all two different wars, some sometimes connect to each other too. 

The war because of dictatorship and power and the one for telling others what to believe in. The wars in the name of god. And both have a very dangerous similarity- both are lead by people who do not except another options and believes. 

Both work with a lot of propaganda in every way possible. Both work with the fact that mankind is easy to keep alive without its mind. Better a living robot then a living mind. 

Both systems forget or ignore that achieving success in the future is only to get with a living mind. But they will not listen untill they have no choice. 

And most of all, both system work with a fact that many others use too. Fear. Keep people in fear. Make mankind fear change. Make them fear an own mind. Make them fear losing their jobs and money. Make them fear their own future and this will always played by words who tell them that there is no way out, no other way, no chnace, no nothing and absolute just the slave way to live as they say, though they never say you are a slave but this is what they want you to be. A slave, a living robot, but never a living mind. 

So keeping people blind is easy, for this game is played for a very long time. 

But fear will keep you little and week and blind and ill and most of all in thoughts you should better avoid thinking, if you want a free and happy life. 

Though all of us have been teached the truth and what a happy life means and money isn't part of it and not using your mind isn't part of it and going the path of another one isn't part of it. 

We all listened to stories of standing up, using your courage and strength. We all saw movies with simple people becoming heros as they just step out of the shadows other wants you to stand in. We all have read news about those who come together and fight for a better world. We all can read books about how to take your own steps. 

So why don't we? Because the first things we learn everywhere is- FEAR. We are warned in live everywhere. We are teached to be aware of what to do and what not and to fear that consequenses could be bad. We are also teached to much not to stand up, even if we have companion with us. So mothers and fathers- if you want a free child don't teach warnings first! Teach trying and trying till it is right for them. Teach them to use their own mind and that others don't matter if it is about what you have and can do. 

Oh how much have we heard that we can't do this and that.

How much we have learned this is to read everyday in the press as we read what we can't. 

Listen to the politics and see they do nothing cos they say they can't. Though all of us know we can. 

Yes we can, were the words Obama had with him but then he lost his own track, now he lives in fear more then ever though he had a chance. But that is another thing. 

We all believe from time to time we don't stand a chance, but we never really try and we far to less speak out about that. For if we did, we had to say that everything's is everyones fault. No one can say it was not even his fault. We all stick together in the same boat but we choose to ignore. 

Oh how many times TV Shows were telling us this. Star Treck, Dr. Who, Sherlock Holms, Chicago Hope etc...

But we have also learned with fear- to be blind when it is about all those things, though they sitt in the back of each and everyones mind. 
Actually you don't have to come from the western world to be able to understand this, just if you want. 
But here we come back to the wars- what is mostly feard by those who do the war? Education!

Education of the mind and the heart. Empathy is something which is very much needed for if you have one, you won't kill just because of some words, someone says. Empathy will tell you what is right and wrong and that stoning your sister because she got raped is wrong. You don't need a law to tell what is right and what is wrong but you need and open mind. Sadly some countries have to many young people who never got the education to make them thinking by their own and feel by their own heart and act in their own name instead of something strange. 

But an only well educated mind alone can also be a problem as it is that many smart minds are fools and believe in things who never could be right if their heart would be open and they truely had empathy. Here I blame all the man who make the religions world wide a game to follow without asking. This is a badder game then "Games of thrones" as it is so wrong in words and acting. The lying is so obvious but the people are made so blind with drugs and songs and pictures and dust.  

You feel maybe just now that your fear is going stronger and this is exactly what those people want with the whole risk to bring mankind in the dark age and in ful slavery. At the end mankind is not able to exist and this price they are easy and willing to pay as they only see themself. So many war people are willingly to pay the price and even people who seem not be at war they are as they sell all the things those war warriors need. And so are many rich people war people as they sell without a heart but claim they can't do different -thought they know they can but won't and have learned to ignore the consequenses as they never feel it self. Because they, from time to time let slip a man by and be free. That is actually how it is going. You do something deeply bad but as you seems to be from time to time a good man, you must have the right for another chance and be able to be loved. Because as no one is only bad from the ground.  

And here we have our chance. Knowing this we can go the right direction. Keep our focus on the nice and god things. Keep our mind open and never forget the shadows but we can step into more sun and out of all the misery as it is possible. Bad thoughs brings bad things. Good thoughs brings good things. The law of attraction. We all know it but as we fear and doub this law will show us darkness and so we believe that we are right what we fear, thought we would be right too and shown the reason why if we don't. THE REVOLUTION OF LOVE as we can read it sometimes is the right way and maybe the only way to save part of mankind and the world, thought things will change a lot untill we have a peace time again. And yes there will always be a shadow left behind. The dark will never fade but we can make it small. I won't promise the golden age but still we have the possibilities. I am sure we can, if we just want as more and more want and actually do. No wonder that the fights have become harder. They fear us- the awaken and free.

But we have to become stronger!

So---> Stop waiting constantly for a change. Be the change! 

And where do we stand now? In a time where the last fights are going on- again. Like in the Lord of the rings, we stand in the time of Frodo and his friends and we have to gatter around as the enemy is building up. This is Lord of the rings in real live. Books are made of our reality. Everyone of them. 

So our weapon is mind, education, heart and the revolution of love to focus at, as it is better to focus on something to fight for, then something to die for. 

Be Frodo, be a companion of Dr. Who, be part of the Enterprise or be mother courage. 

Never give up the hope and the way of Love as most of us know what Love is in some way. We all have knowlegde of the good things and the bad things that may be. We all know no risk, no fun and no success.

Yes we have become a bit to lazy and sure of ourself and that's why fear had it easy, but we can still let it go and smile. A bit fear never killed you, but if you let the fear rule you, it will kill you for sure in some way.  

Which side are you on? It's time to decide! Will you be still the weakest link? Or will you strongen? 

This all may sound very philosophical but it is very, very clear part of our reality.

For me, I will go the way of light and love as much as I can and I will help you and let me help from you as much as it will be. 

Dead- the one we fear so much should be our reminder that life is better to live happy then waste in shadows. You may live a long life in darkness but happiness won't reach you as Gollum never was happy that way.  

So my dear readers, decide it's time!

Drown in fear or get out of it and fly in hope and positive spirit.

Act up and stand up!

It's a hard way, yes, and it is maybe a long time going on untill we can call things good again in all meanings. No, no one said it would be easy, but no one said it has be that far. 

Sometimes I wonder who you are.

But nevertheless it is a way out of fear- and so let's start with to say goodbye to fear and laugh into the eyes of the enemy- 

Halloween is the right time for this! Happy Halloween and as always...

...LOVE & LIGHT

International day of Kiss

Seems it's long, long time ago I wrote something here in my blog, but you know me, I only write if I feel it's right. Actually I had not much time and too much going on in my mind and life to write something good, but while the most now will write about soccer I think it's quite a good change to write about the actual day of kiss. Of course the day is made up by a bunch of guys while they took a beer or two and no one really knows why they made it up and what it is about.
It's sure not political reason, although a kiss is more then just a kiss, while I think it should be. 
In fact there are countries where you not kiss in open places and just remember not long ago in movies a kiss was seldom or if there was one it never where shown right or face to face. A kiss was in fact something very offensive and had the meaning of being a sexual slut. And still in some countries a kiss is more then that. It stands for a life you choose to live and I don't mean your sexual orientation. An open kiss in countries where homosexual can be harmed is a choice you make. The choice to be yourself and show who you are. Or where women have next to no rights. So they show, that they are a human who has the same rights like each of us should have. 
Then a kiss is of course different in it's interpretations. It can be friendly, show love, show kindness, be a sign of protest, be a sign of seduction, be an affront or be a candy and so on. And then a kiss is for most women more then just too lips meeting each other, while for many man kissing a stranger is nothing special. For most men it is just a kiss to heat up, sometimes just to get an erection, some times to show domination, some times just part of a conversation. But society have been teaching women since a long time that a kiss stands for love. Only love. Kissing for fun is still therefore an exception. 
Oh yes, a kiss on the neck is different to a kiss on the forehead, and different to a kiss on the hand. We kiss much in our live. Mostly of different kinds of love. Family, friends and society- all there you can find a kiss on the way. Political kiss while the cold war or the high society kiss check to check, the friendly kiss to a grandmother and the good bye kiss to a child, before it goes to school. But the latter is quite also kind of a modern thing. To kiss your child as children were long seen as little adults and never have been touched that way by parents. Oh there are still sects who forbid the first contacts with a baby after birth and also the kiss on the head or the hand to say hello my newborn. 
But as we are on children- here we have also unwelcome kisses. Kisses grown people are giving to children without the permission of them, without asking them or even the parents when it is just a hello kiss. But you know what I mean. So many children have to stand out sexual harassment. (And even adults get kisses from people against their will.)It's a awful thing, getting parts of the body kissed where an adult never should put his lips on. No matter if it's a stranger, someone from the family or the parents
But Allah's not every kiss from a a parent to a child is sexual abuse. That strange fear must gone too. How can a loving mother not give a kiss to his little child. 

The "Kiss" is usually a positive word and that's why the advertising campaigns use the kiss, or the idea of a kiss or just the image of a kissing mouth like Kylie used it for her CD. But here we see that the kiss is also a sexual thing, although it's more an erotic and sensitive thing. But the kiss is just the next step from our time we fed each other. Like animals still do with their babies. So it's kind of complex. 

But now, let's take another look on "The Kiss".
Few can kiss real good from the start. It is a thing to learn and train. The kiss you give your love. 
Oh what I've been through! Some kiss like a machine. Always the same way, always the same rhythm. 
Like a clock. Some tried to bite me, although I think that was not the idea. Some could not even move their lips. Some kiss like you have an illness and call it passion. Some opened their mouth and I was afraid to fall in. A kiss is lips to lips not a big gab, a big hole to a head. I don't want to dive into your stomach. If I wanted, I had better things to dive in. 
Saliva. Yes it's natural to have some in your mouth but be kind and don't forget to swallow it. If I want to take a bath, I take the tub. 
A tongue. Is an organ you can use, but use it gently not like a drilling machine or a hammer. And please don't start with the tongue play and please don't try to lick my face before I am getting warm in my passion for you. 
Sometimes I only get the big, big tongue and wonder how this is a kiss. Where have those people learn this? Porn? 
And yes sometimes -I confess- my kisses are called Jackhammer kisses, because my passion presses me into you. I've learned to let this go... more or lesson. But surly I don't start with a cold start kiss... 
What more? It's always good to have a fresh breath, but better brush your teeth not the minute before you'll kiss or take a bubble gum just before it, If I wanted a fresh bomb in my mouth, I do it by myself. Thanks. But I do wonder, in some movies you see the actors brushing their teeth and then the partner or lover comes into the bathroom and start kissing. I mean their not even finished and spat the toothpaste. I always think -those poor actors. Must be more disgusting then making a sex scene. But do people actually do this? 

But at least... I mean , when it is about kissing, start gently, just lips to lips and then go on. Smell each other and see each other, kiss other parts of the face, play and gently start taking the tongue, then go back to just kiss, but with a little pressing and feeling and passion and so on.... Take your time and try. Try different positions, different times of the day. Wake you man in the morning with a surprise kiss, softly, gently, but full of love and passion. Sometimes a puff of a kiss is more then all the big screen kisses you know. 
Isn't it crazy how much you can write about a kiss. Just a kiss. A thing which can give love, make people jealous, can keep peace of two countries or get you killed by the mob, can save your life and also change it. 
So can mankind survive without a kiss?
Think about it. 

Love & Light